Sensitive! -7dp5dt BFN and feels like the end.

[Glaedy]

I'm 7dpt today and tested another BFN, I think I will stop testing till my OTD I got my heartache maybe it will turn to a nice surprise on Monday but for now I am bracing myself. Even my husband is telling me, why have I tested earlier if clinic specifically told us NOT to. Well, first of all he won't get it 😆 the urge to know sooner, to be happier sooner, because I think all of us HOPE it will give us this beautiful 2 lines. I feel like such hypocrite, I am supporting others who are in the same shoes because it's still "early" and it can change, because many ladies on forums says they were getting positives by day 8,9,10 and for myself I am so harsh. Even now I am convincing myself that we are out already because 7dpt was negative.

2ww sucks! And I can tell it with 100% honesty. And I don't believe anymore this transfer worked.

I don't believe it will change to positive, and even if I don't believe it will be viable.

My 1st FET - BFP 5dp5dt (squinters od 4dpt pm) - successful

2nd FET - BFP 6dp5dt - MC at 7w

3rd FET - BFP 7dp5dt - chemical

And now 4th - nothing :/

I wish I could be this one lucky fool who turns to get this BFP even after all this rant that this is over. I really do.

Sorry for the rant. I just feel like my heart is broken.

[Millbanks]

I'm so sorry lovely - I know that feeling well.

I've never been one of the lucky ones who get a late positive but I have seen so many women on here who do!

Maybe try to plan something nice for your OTD but keep a little bit of hope in your back pocket.

Sending hugs xxx

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Best to wait till OTD - difficult to do so try to keep yourself busy - read a good book - go for long walk -watch something silly on TV Eat well and drink plenty of fluids - rest when you can Take any meds you were given as directed

Thinking of you

Janet-Partner

[ZeroHope]

I feel you! I’m 7dp5dt too and BFN, I really think it’s over for me. It’s so damn hard, this was my transfer n.12 and with zero babies to show for.

I’ve decided this is the last day of meds. I’ll take another test tomorrow morning at 8dp5dt just to confirm the negative and then I’ll quit everything. I hope you can have a better outcome, but honestly I think the chances are not much at this point 😔

[Glaedy in reply to ZeroHope]

I'm so sorry you are getting the same results as me 😥maybe wait a bit longer with stopping the meds? I will take them till the end but mostly because I want to ask clinic to test my hormon levels to see if my progesteron was ok or maybe I was not absorbing it well, or something else was lacking. And beta hcg just to amuse me so I will have it done at least once

[Cherie2023]

Hi there, I understand your feeling. After couple of failed cycle I had my third this Feb. Though the hospital advised not to test, after reading so much I couldn't contain my excitement and tested on day 11. It came negative. I was devastated as I had a 5day transfer. Did the blood work as recommended although I had lost hope. I was only surprised when the nurse called to tell me it's all good. Hcg was over 800, weird the kit didn't pick it up. All is not lost, so hang in there. Sending hugs !!!

[Glaedy in reply to Cherie2023]

Wow! That is one of the kind. I am testing with more than 1 brand of tests just in case one kit fails.

[Saskiahope]

I feel all of your words. The TWW sucks and getting a BFN before your OTD also sucks. What a cruddy week for me and you. Let’s hope Sunday for me and Monday for you surprises us, and if not let’s reach for the wine, build our strength up and more forward. Thinking of you (and me), poor us, brave us, to be a woman ohhhh it’s hard sometimes xxx