End of 2WW With A BFN.

[runsoncuddles]

Hello lovely ladies,

Looks like we are out. I first tested on Monday using a first response and a clear blue digital and it was clear as day that it was a BFN. I was upset, worried about my husband and just angry to be honest.

My OTD was this morning & I repeated the same tests and again BFN! I knew it would be, really what were the chances of things changing rapidly over a few hours... 0!! I think testing on Monday prepped me and allowed me to start thinking through things and deciding on next move ( still don't know what that will be)

I had 1 grade 5Ab embryo implanted, we have 3 frozen

Congratulations to everyone who got a BFP And good luck to those still waiting. I wish you all the best on this tumultuous journey xxx

[HopeTTC18]

I’m sorry to hear your news also. It sounds like it was a great embryo too.

Take some time for you and to think about what you want to do next. Are your remaining frosties good quality? X

[runsoncuddles in reply to HopeTTC18]

Thank you so much, I don't think they were as good as the first one, but some relief that they are there. Xx

[Cinderella5]

Im really sorry to hear your outcome. It is hard getting a BFN, be kind to yourselves. Its good news that you have some on ice, do whatever you need to do to gather some strength back meantime.xx

[runsoncuddles in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you so much Cinderella xx

[Danascha]

Deep breaths... it's quite hard to take in the bfn. Hope you and hubby find comfort in each other during this time. It's a tough journey for us as we know we had the embryo in us for the 2ww compared to those trying naturally.

Take this time to be kind to yourself and exhale... We've been through a roller coaster of emotions, hormones and life thrown in between so take the time to just be and when you're ready to think about the next steps, then go for it.

The thing that motivates me and keeps me going is remembering that I have managed to get this far along the process.

Best of luck on your journey!

X

[runsoncuddles in reply to Danascha]

Thanks so much Danascha, so true such a life changing experience xx

[MakingbabyNM]

I’m so sorry 😐 I truly am. Keep going youl get your fairy tale xx

[runsoncuddles in reply to MakingbabyNM]

Thank you love! Xx

[emiliajj]

So sorry to hear about your sad news this morning, I had a BFN on my first ICSI cycle in April and it was really hard. Take it easy today and maybe discuss why you want to do or how soon you want to try again. Like you got 3 Frosties so cheer up we got 3 more chances! We will be doing Natural FET this month and I have my 1st scan on Friday. There’s a lot of trepidation this time however we shouldn’t lose hope. Sending my big hugs to you xxx

[runsoncuddles in reply to emiliajj]

Thank you! You're right we still got three frosties to take home in the future. I'm Sending you all the best wishes for Friday and beyond! Xx

[SaraMusk]

Oh No Im Sorry to Hear this Hun, Just Last Night I was thinking of you and came to see if you have Posted any News which I did Wish it was Good News, Im Really Sorry Hun 😔 Hug you Tight Please Take Care of Yourself and be Strong and just take Your Time Thinking what to do Next, I Still Pray for a Good Future for You ❤️

[runsoncuddles in reply to SaraMusk]

Oh Sarah! Thank you so much, it's been tough but just going to take it a day at a time. I hope you're well and things are going to go well for you xx

[SaraMusk in reply to runsoncuddles]

Honest Speaking Im so Scared for Friday, I really Hope my Heart doesn’t Break again 😔🙏🏻 You’re still in my Prayers Hun I Hope it won’t be Long before you get your Bundle xx

[runsoncuddles in reply to SaraMusk]

Praying for you too! It is well xx

[Drives]

Sorry to read this post. Hope you are taking good care of yourself. Sending love 💕 x x x

[runsoncuddles in reply to Drives]

Thank you Drives, much appreciated ✨

[hifer]

Really sorry to hear your news. Sending you lots of love at this very tricky time xx

[runsoncuddles in reply to hifer]

Thank you so much love xx

[CM2011]

Sorry to hear this I feel your pain. My official test day is tomorrow but I tested today as I am bridesmaid for my friend tomorrow and I also got negative. I doubt anything is going to change between today and tomorrow.

[runsoncuddles in reply to CM2011]

I'm so sorry to read this, I thought I'd faced difficulties before but this takes the crown... I'm sending you all my love, don't give up. Xx

[Core]

So sorry to hear this, it’s great you have some frozen 🤞 one of those will be the one!xx

[runsoncuddles in reply to Core]

Thank you Core! All our hopes are now on the remaining 3. I hope I'll be able to share good news with everyone one day xxx

[Solly-44]

I’m so sorry, it’s unbelievably tough. Sending you hugs and strength x

[runsoncuddles in reply to Solly-44]

Thank you so much xx

[Hidden]

So sorry lovely! Sending you lots of hugs ❤️ Good luck with your remaining Frosties xxx

[runsoncuddles]

Thanks Pandora! We are keeping everything crossed for them too xx

[infertilefriends]

Ugh, I'm so sorry to hear that you didn't get good news.

I know it feels like the end of the world, but it is great that you still have 3 embabies waiting in the freezer for you whenever you feel ready to try again. You will get your baby eventually.. your patience is just being tested in the meantime. Try your hardest to stay positive!

[runsoncuddles in reply to infertilefriends]

Thank you so much for your kind & encouraging words. They mean a lot to me. You're right it will work out xx