Really disheartened

[sammears20]

Scan 2 days ago suggested atleast 13 follicles and if not more due to injections carrying on for a few more days.

My previous cycle I saw on my 4 eggs, 1 failed transfer and none frozen.

The plan this time was to increase my stims and take estrogen to help all folicles grow the same time and produce a larger amount. But then to do a freeze all as I have thickened lining of 15mm and that's my normal but the hope was to try and reduce.

Today I had my egg retrieval and only ended up with 6 so not a great success.

Today the Dr is saying to do a fresh transfer this weekend which contradicts the issues with my lining and I'm nervous due to failed implantation last time. I am also nervous as I had none frozen last time that I will have none this time and this could be my only chance Either way .

This is my final chance so really confused what to do

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Each cycle of treatment can be and frequently is entirely different from the one before Ask consultant to explain why going ahead with fresh transfer and your concerns about the lining of your womb Hope that this will help help your confusion about your treatment

Thinking of you

Janet -Partner

[sammears20 in reply to JA-fnuk]

The issue is different drs are giving different reasonings. The Dr I saw for this cycle stated freeze all to get my lining in a better position. This Dr has said fresh and no concerns about my 15mm lining despite every Dr prior being worried and saying it's too thick. On my last transfer I had a period before 10 days so implantation failure and no reasoning bar my lining as everything else on paper with me is OK.

Also was informed the grading for a freeze all is slightly less. So if I do the fresh I worry my eggs will not be suitable for freezing.

I really do not know what do do

I feel confused and also does not help I'm doing this solo and have noone to ask advice hence coming on here 😭