My FET date is all set for 21.03.24! To be honest I don't know how I feel. It's my 4th FET, and I feel a bit empty, no emotions like it's not real, or it's not happening. My lining looks all perfect 8,3. I thought that I would be all ecstatic and happy with this transfer or at least nervous and it's just... Nothing.
I don't know if it's just the last 2 transfers which didn't end well and played the role with it or subconsciously I don't want to have high hopes?
How do you feel about your next transfers?
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hi, just wanted to wish you the best!!! Hang in there. Our transfer is tomorrow , we are using a surrogate. I’m freaking out because she was supposed to drive to us today for the transfer but her car broke down. She we have to drive the 4 hrs to get her and the 4 hrs back! Praying that the stress of it all doesn’t hurt our chances…. But feeling bombed. IVF is stressful enough!
Your lining is great? Are you transferring a tested embryo? How many?
Thank you & Good luck on your transfer tomorrow! I bet it will be fine, think of it as something to forever remember (like adventure?) Of all things you had to do to have your precious baby!
My lining was measuring today 8,3mm triple layer with good blood flow which they said it was perfect. We are transferring only one blastocyst 5Aa (not tested)
Good luck with your transfer! I think how you’re feeling is totally normal. I’m awaiting my period so can start again for transfer number 3 + so I can totally relate with the numb feeling.
I wish I could say yes, but stupidly I testes too early day 4 &5 and of course it was negative but at least it stopped me from testing today because I was more scared than curious 😅
hi Glaedy, i just test postive at my 4th fet!! Dont give up… i feel the only difference it make for this was adding lubion x 2 additional to 2 x cyclogest a day. I was like you feeling low emotions, no excitement worry it wont work again. Speak to you doctor if they can add lubion?
Congratulations on you BFP! My clinic didn't see any advantages in adding lubion to my protocol because I had good implantation rate they said that it was something wrong with embryon etc
That is what my doctor said it might be my embryos, i transfered 3bc. My lining is alway been good and lastest was 10.5 … i insist added to this round as i want to try somwthing different.
Hi Glaedy my FET is also scheduled for 21st March and is FET number 5 for me after 2 miscarriages. I completely understand how you're feeling. For the first time I cried in my appointment at the clinic even before they did the scan. I have a huge fear of everything unravelling again and having to deal with more loss. The ongoing uncertainty of IVF is so hard and it's also scary because for the first time I started to feel that I didn't want to continue with IVF if this transfer doesn't work and eventhough we have embryos that will be left. I imagine we will continue but it's so hard. Sending you lots of good luck xx
I'm so sorry for you losses, infertility is so hard and unfair. I know how you feel because even going on this transfer I feel like why am I doing this to myself again, and starting doubting if I want it anymore. But all I can say is I wish you soo much luck, and that this transfer will work for us and it will be finally over with the happy ending. If you would like to chat during tww or overall message me I was planning not to test but today I woke up with idea to order more FRER tests 😅
I wish you luck! I got negative response of BHCG today. It was my 2nd time. With a PGD genetically controlled embryo and 12mm endometrium. And to think that before I was naturally pregnant! I don't understand anything anymore!
good luck 😊🙌🏼 it’s probably your way of protecting your feelings subconsciously and is pretty normal on my experience so I will be very very excited for you, I’m sure you will feel different on the day 🥳 xx
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