Hello team- still here!

[hifer]

Hello IVF warriors! I don’t know if any of my old IVF buddies are still on here…. Unfortunately I’m still hanging about 😆. We’re about to start on our 7th transfer (3rd successful), now trying for a sibling. Waiting for my cycle to start for my baseline. Anxiety was pretty high yesterday. Managed to calm with lots of deep breathing but the anticipation is building. I know all the things to do to try and manage anxiety but I truly will never get over the anxiety of an IVF cycle. I don’t have it in any other circumstances. Strap in people and hope for the best on this crazy ride. Sending strength to all those that need it right now.

xx

[Rainbowdreams82]

Yes I remember you from 2020/2021 when both going through struggles trying to conceive our firsts. I’m 21 weeks pregnant now after trying since last year for baby number 2. You got this 🙌🏼sending all the positive vibes your way for a successful transfer 🤞🏼xxx

[hifer in reply to Rainbowdreams82]

Whoop whoop!!! Congrats on your pregnancy. How are you finding it? Xx

[Rainbowdreams82 in reply to hifer]

I’m doing well thanks. Wishing you all the luck for the frozen transfer. You got a date yet?xx

[Twiglet2]

wishing you lots of luck lovely 😘 is it a frozen transfer or a fresh round this time? hoping this is the one for a wee bro or sis for you guys 🤞🏽 xxx

[hifer in reply to Twiglet2]

Hello lovely! Another frozen one. Thanks so much. How are you doing? X

[Twiglet2 in reply to hifer]

Oh fab!! Come on little frostie 🤞🏽 I’m on the wait between day 3 and day 5 to see if any embryos make it for transfer Wednesday 🤪 xx

[hifer in reply to Twiglet2]

Oh absolutely everything crossed for you. I really hope you have one to transfer 🤞xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Twiglet2]

Best of luck.xxx

[Sparklylife]

Hi hifer ! I remember seeing your name around 🧡 Not sure if you remember mine, but I am still here too!

We have been gearing up for a FET. Ready to start now with my September cycle! 🤞

We have made some big decisions. No more egg collections for us, but we are ready to be reunited with our frostie and give that a chance! I just really hope it will work 🥹 I know the odds may not be in our favour, but ready to try! The closer it is getting, the more scared I am! I am not so worried about medications this time and the injections. But worried about the thaw as the first hurdle!

Wishing you the best and hope for a good baseline scan! 🧡🤞

[hifer in reply to Sparklylife]

Hello! Wishing you all the very best. I know there are so many hurdles. I’m just trying to take one step at a time. We aren’t doing egg collections either. Everything crossed for you. When do you start? Xx

[Sparklylife in reply to hifer]

Around 11/09 if my cycle is playing ball 😇 prev experience I am normally very regular, but of course when you wait for it like this.. it can be a day or two off 😂🫣 I think I can be two days off, but anymore we might have to reschedule as it would mean transfer lands on a weekend..and clinic will be closed! 🤞

[hifer in reply to Sparklylife]

Is your clinic def shut on the weekends? That must affect a lot of people I should think. How annoying for you 🙈

[Cinderella5 in reply to Sparklylife]

Lots of luck to you too.😘🤞🏻xxx

[Sparklylife in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you 🥰 Hope you are all well!! Xx

[PenguinBlue]

sending you lots of luck for this upcoming transfer hifer - you got this!! X

[hifer in reply to PenguinBlue]

Hello you, thank you 🙏

[hifer in reply to PenguinBlue]

how are you doing? Xx

[PenguinBlue in reply to hifer]

I’m doing well thank you lovely, so kind of you to ask 😘 - on the last stretch before baby #2 arrives shortly & just lurking on here like a fraud still 🙈 but love to see posts from those around from when I went through it all - definitely still very vivid how tough these transfers can be! Hope the anxiety does ease for you, it is so hard when there’s only 1 goal in mind - but you got this!!

Will be following your progress for this one - lucky number 7 🍀🍀🍀🍀 hope your baseline looks fab 👌🏽 xx

[hifer in reply to PenguinBlue]

Whoop whoop 🙌. So exciting for you. Look forward to hearing your updates when little one arrives 😊.

Will keep everyone posted. Thought I’d be having my baseline yesterday. Naturally, as I’m waiting for it, my period hasn’t arrived yet so hopefully it’ll be sometime this week 🙈. Xx

[PenguinBlue in reply to hifer]

Thank you my love 💕 excited but nervous on adjusting to life with 2!

Ha, that’s always the way isn’t it?! Hope that it shows soon so you can get underway! Xxx

[Applepie7]

Hey yes I remember you all the best with your transfer hope all goes well xxx

[hifer in reply to Applepie7]

Thank you so much 😊 x

[Hiramunir78]

2 transfers was failed? Any reason? Please can you mention grade of the embryos you transferred.

[hifer in reply to Hiramunir78]

Hi there, I’ve had five failed transfers. I’m about to do my seventh. Can’t remember all the grades I’m afraid. I’ve been doing this for so many years! You’ll never get a conclusive reason for a failed transfer unfortunately. It could be one of a number of variables and you’ll just never know ☹️

[Keepingfaith85 in reply to hifer]

Wishing you all the luck in the world for your next transfer! You are amazing coming back to it all, it’s such a tough process. Just think lucky number 7 😘

[hifer in reply to Keepingfaith85]

Thank you so much. I hope you’re right. Lucky number seven 🤞xx

[Hiramunir78 in reply to hifer]

Sorry if my question make you upset. After 2nd successful this is my 3rd transfer. That's why I was so worried.

[hifer in reply to Hiramunir78]

No not at all. There’s just no guarantees sadly. I wish there was! Wishing you all the very best 🤞

[Cinderella5]

Hey lovely, I'm still lurking around stalking!!🤣🙈 Just hanging around to see if some of my lovely ladies get to where they'd like to be. Wishing you tonnes of luck as always....push those anxiety gremlins away with a strong eff off......you got this my strong fellow warrior!!💪🏻🤞🏻😘xxx

[hifer in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks my lovely. What the hell am I doing??! 7 transfers!! I must be mad like you 🤪. Hope the twins are doing really well? Xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to hifer]

Well you're definitely in good company!!😭🤣 We are all good thank you. Hopefully see your updates....I'll keep checking in. You go girl!!🤞🏻🥰😘xxx

[hifer in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you xx

[KHRAM]

I really needed to hear this today, starting me 1st cycle in 2 weeks and a anxious and all these feeling can’t sleep I don’t even know how I am going to react it’s all so unknow and no one really understands 😞

[Miracle43]

Hi lovely, I’m still here too.

Wishing lots of baby dust xx

[hifer in reply to Miracle43]

Thank you. Lovely to hear from you xx

[Fertilityjourney]

Hello - I'm back too, trying for a sibling!

Started mild stimulation FET meds and found out on Friday that I responded very quickly to Gonal F so I'm going for transfer this Friday!!

Had forgotton about the joys of Lubion and Fragmin injections but back to reality now...

Keeping everything crossed for you! ✨xx

[hifer in reply to Fertilityjourney]

And you lovely. Everything crossed for Friday. Whoop whoop. One of the joys about IVF is never being able to plan anything as you just never know timings 😆. I’m on injections too so I’m with you 🙌. Xx

[ttcemmie]

Best of luck hifer!! (I come back now and then to check in on people). You got this you warrior princess!! xxx

[hifer in reply to ttcemmie]

Thank you so much. How are you doing my lovely? Xx

[AuroraXen]

Wishing you loads of luck Lovely! 🤞🤞😍

[hifer in reply to AuroraXen]

Thank you 🙏

[Ranchu90]

I wish you very best of luck 🤞 and strength to go through this craziness all over again!! I am not sure if I could do this again 🤔, I think I am getting old now 🤣... Glad to see the veterans here 🤣😂 brigs so many memories back ...and it is also nice to see that so many of us are doing well after riding a rollercoaster for years, I guess not many are visiting Alton towers as we had enough 🤣😂🙈

Take care and bring the positive news soon. I will come to check it 😃🙂🤞🤗🥰♥️