Newbie here. 8dp6dt, still bfN on home kits. Frozen transfer.

[ChiGi]

My OTD is Friday. When did most people start seeing a faint second line on the home kits? I’m SO SO SO scared and sad it’s going to be bfN on Friday 😢 it’s our first transfer - we tried getting pregnant for two years with no luck. I feel so alone in this journey.

[Dolly8]

Don’t feel alone darling. We are all in the same boat together. 8dp is too early. On my one positive test even on test day it was so faint I had to test again the next day. Lots of hope for you xx

[ChiGi in reply to Dolly8]

Thank you Dolly8 😘

[Running79]

I didn't test last time until the day I was told to, and it was a faint positive. You will find some people continue to test afterwards, I didn’t see the point as it would drive me mad and wouldn’t change anything between your test and the viability scan.

My test date is this Saturday so I’ll see what happens.........

[ChiGi in reply to Running79]

Thank you! Fingers crossed, prayers and sending lots of baby dust your way 😘

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi ChiGi. Oh dear, it’s a terrible time waiting for test day. Try and be brave and wait until a Friday as advised. Fingers crossed all is well. Diane

[ChiGi in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you DianeArnold. It’s so hard to wait patiently and not get extremely anxious - I’ve already baked 2 cakes, made ice cream from scratch, made so many elaborate meals, watch 90 days fiancée.... and now I’m just straight out having a panic attack that she’s not going to stick. Trying to take deep breaths. But man oh woman, I’m struggling today.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to ChiGi]

Oh my poor girl! xxxxx

[Kiers27]

Hey ... you have done so so well to get this far ... the 2 WW Is just the hardest emotionally really.

My OTD is also Friday ... wishing you the best of luck for the results. 🤞🏻🙏🏼

Keep positive and keep up the baking ... sounds delicious xx

[ChiGi in reply to Kiers27]

Thank you Kiers27! It’s one of the hardest things I’ve done so far... and I thought the progesterone shots were bad... but this wait, this anxiety... no comparison 🤦🏻‍♀️

And I’ll be thinking of you on Friday too. Prayers, good thoughts and lots of positivity being sent your way. Xx

[Kiers27 in reply to ChiGi]

Yes exactly that ... i found it it’s super hard physically in the 1st 2 weeks ... and then not emotionally harder in the 2nd two.

Everything crossed for you xx 🙏🏼🤞🏻

[jengi]

Oh lovely, please try and calm your mind. No amount of worrying will change the outcome. Everyone is right, it’s too early to test so please don’t do it. You are just torturing yourself! I downloaded Zita West’s visualisation on iTunes and did the 2 week wait meditation every day, sometimes twice a day if I felt anxious. I worked hard on my breathing & taking deep breaths if I started to feel anxious. Best of luck Xx