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Baby still here! In total shock

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Hey guys went for a scan today due to bleeding over the weekend and to my surprise there was a baby with a heartbeat. My clinic think it could be a threatened miscarriage so I've a 50/50 chance. I couldn't face looking at the scan, my hubby got a scan picture. I've been dwn this road b4 seen the heartbeat then on next scan it had died. I know not every cycle is the same. I just don't want to get hurt again. I've been advised to just rest up for the next week until my 7th week scan. I just hope and pray this is a miracle baby. Thank you for all your comments and support its been greatly appreciate xx

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Natalie28 profile image
Natalie28

That's fantastic news every crossed for you that this little one holds on x

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misswinky34

OMG fantastic news ❤️🙏 Do as yet told now and rest! Little prayers for you both 😊

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Mantaray75

Fingers crossed for you. x

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Cinderella5

Oh Im so pleased for you, that's fabulous news! Get those feet up and have some rest!xx

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Tugsgirl

Hoping and praying for you x

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NDE1987

That's such good news Vonny. Rest up and pray xxx

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vonny27

Thanks guys I'm defo resting even tho i dont think I can rest anymore than I am, hubby won't even let me make toast lol I'm just going to take each day has it comes and pray it's a miracle baby. Thanks again xx

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Georgina78

That's great news but still a worrying time for you so everything crossed all will be fine xx

Fantastic news! So happy for you-I was wondering how you got on.

I bled very heavily at 7 weeks like a full period-and was sure I'd lost the pregnancy. I didn't have many symptoms either-however my baby was fine and is now a strapping 18 year old lad!

My sister also bled at 5 weeks and was told she wlukd lose the baby-she didn't and my niece is a healthy active 3 year old.

Some women bleed in pregnancy doesn't always mean miscarriage.

I know it's very worrying-and believe me I would be the same esp after what we all go through to get there.

Put your feet up and let your hubby wait on you!

X

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vonny27 in reply to

Thanks hun your words are reassuring honest. Life is just so cruel at times but hopefully I'll come out on top. My feet are up and are staying put until I give birth lol xx

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sipidania

Thinking of you Vonny, xx

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vonny27 in reply to sipidania

Thanks hun x

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tiger-cub

Praying for u gurl. Just hang in there

But u need to ask them if they should give u extra progesterone via injections. Insufficient progesterone can trigger miscarriage

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vonny27 in reply to tiger-cub

I'm on 1200 mil of progesterone hun already can I get more? I'll ask em at my next scan x

Keeping everything crossed for you xx

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katya38

Fingers crossed. Hope you get your miracle baby xxx

Everything crossed for you xxx

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Raglee

Hi Vonny, such fantastic news, how amazing, praying that it hangs in there all the way x

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Sunny_skies

That's great news. Wishing you all the best my love. Xx

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michelle1973

Everything crossed for you xxx

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vonny27

Thanks guys for the lovely comments I've needed them I'll tell ya. X

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DC13

Fantastic news regarding the scan. Rest up and good luck for your next scan. Thinking of you.

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LHow81

Good luck got everything crossed for you! X

See never give up hope xx

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MaryKNS

Great news! Fingers crossed for you! xxx

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Cmat

Wow good luck! Am I a similar situation, had bleeding during 2ww but then BFP. Had my 7 week scan yesterday and there was a heartbeat but length only 6mm which she said was too small. I asked chances and she said 60-40 towards it not working out which was so painful after this long journey but fingers crossed our babies get a growth spurt this week and are there good and strong on the next scan Xx

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vonny27 in reply to Cmat

Oh Cmat I'm sorry hope all works out for us. I didn't see the heartbeat couldn't bring myself to look. I had a missed miscarriage 3 years ago. I saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks then at the 8 wks scan it's heart had stopped. I can't go through that again it broke me. I'm hoping next Wednesday on my 7wks scan all will be fine but inside I'm not holding much hope. X

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Cmat in reply to vonny27

Well you never know, this baby could be a real fighter and you are doing everything you can. We have to go on a 3 hour drive today - the nurse said just to have lots of stops, I hope I'm not doing any harm. Resting up sounds a better option- enjoy that toast and hope you get spoilt xxx

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vonny27 in reply to Cmat

Oh God Cmat please do have lots of rests even if it takes u longer to get there it's worth it. I lost a clot this morning and I'm still bleeding but only when I wipe. It's turned from red to brown now sorry TMI I'm hoping it's a good sign tho. I wish I could be put into a coma for the next 12 wks. I'm not used to this resting lark I'm normally very active. Good luck with your journey and please do rest. X

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Cmat in reply to vonny27

Thanks will do. That sounds a very good sign, it's a horrible feeling when you're bleeding but you hear of so many people who bleed and go on to have a healthy pregnancy xxx

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vonny27 in reply to Cmat

You do which gives us hope but there is still that scary voice in ya head. X

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Ixchy

I'm so pleased for you!! I'm sending you positive vibes in hope everything will work out! xx

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