HiI posted in here a few weeks ago, having had a double fresh embryo transfer and one embryo not making it past 6 weeks. My other little one went on to grow, we had a 10 week scan and all was looking really strong and positive.
Sadly today at our 12 week scan there was no heart beat, it looked like our baby didn't make it much past that 10 week scan.
We are in utter shock and disbelief, I feel totally broken today. Its not just the loss of our baby but the hope and planning that came with it. We didn't tell our family because we wanted to wait till we were past the 12 weeks, now we have to tell them this devatsing news.
This fertility path is is utterly heartbreaking at times, my thoughts to you all on this roller coaster of a journey. ❤
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Sorry to hear your sad news. I also had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks, last scan was one week earlier when I had the NIPT and all was looking good.
It is utterly devastating and with that loss goes the hopes and dreams you had for that little one. I hope that you have the love and support of your partner, family and friends.
I'm so sorry to hear you experienced this too, its so utterly heartbreaking, such a loss on so many levels. I wish you all the luck in the world on your journey!
I’m so sorry for what you’re going through, be kind to yourself and take one day at a time, just allow yourself to feel whatever comes your way. You’re right this process it’s truly a rollercoaster, I don’t think anything can prepare you for this , I did try to stay realistic but these babies are so much wanted that is hard no to get excited about it all and plan for the future like many others do xx Having experienced this recently I can only say that it does get better with time ❤️🩹, hopefully you have loved ones supporting you through this , and hopefully you’ll get through the worst on your own time and come out stronger from it xx I send you a big hug and all the best of luck for the future, we can only keep trying and hoping that our dream will come true next time xx
Thank you for your kind message, it is important to take it day by day. I wish you all the very best on your journey too, I'm sure one day we will get there xx
I'm so sorry for your losses. Life is utterly cruel sometimes. Sending you lots of love. Be gentle on yourself and I hope your dream comes true soon. Xxx
I'm so so sorry. We had something similar in June. Please take your time to recover. I didn't take enough time off and it really didn't help. This is a big loss and so much grief to move through. Thinking of you and sending so much love xx
I am so sorry for your loss and thinking of you at this difficult time. You may not want to think of this now but going forward it would be worth thinking about whether your embryos are pgt tested and request that your clinic do further testing for you before a new transfer. I wish you all the best for the future x
I just lost our baby at 12,5 weeks. I was airlifted to a hospital from painful contractions and there on the hospital floor I “gave birth” to the baby. My cervix just opened. No answers, no explanations. I was “unlucky” I’m so sorry for your loss and all the mummies out there fighting for what should be so natural 😌 it’s also the not knowing why that’s killing me. Sending you a warm hug and love and light
Oh my word how traumatic for you, I'm so sorry you went through this. The not knowing is so hard as you can't do anything to prevent/fix it. I hope you have lots of good support around you too. Thank you for your kind words, sending warm hugs back 🤗
I am so sorry. I also has a missed miscarriage of twins in 2020 and it was heartbreaking. After a long journey, we now have our beautiful rainbow daughter 💕 the pain eases with time but I still think of them with all the love I felt when I first found out I was pregnant. Sending you love x
So sorry to hear you went through this too, but I'm happy to hear you went on to have a healthy baby girl. I have a heartbeat Teddy bear and so glad I got it as I have something to show my little baby did exist.
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