My babies heart stopped beating a couple of days ago at 10 weeks - we felt like all our dreams had come true with out IVF baby but now I’m broken. We went for a 10 week scan all excited and the said babies heart is no longer beating. I don’t know what to do.
I’m having an op on Monday to have the pregnancy removed - was I silly to believe my dreams could come true?!
I’m so so sorry, sending you big hugs xxx
Oh no. You poor thing. I have no words other than I’m so so sorry. You will get through this. Sending so much love to you and here if you want to chat ❤️ xxx
Oh hunny I'm so so sorry 😥 this happened to me last year I had a MMC at 11 weeks..i think babys heart stopped around week 9 or 10 just like you as that's when i noticed my symptoms fading...I am so glad you are having an op as what I went through was traumatizing and horrendous. I wish I had the option for an operation. I was so heartbroken for a long long time, and Im guessing you will be to 😥💔 being so close to that 12 week mark is just devastating isnt it.. I just want to wrap my arms around you right now.. I know how you are feeling 😥 please private message me if you need to talk or anything. I hope you have a good support network around you right now as you will need it. I'm so sorry sweetheart please look after yourself 😥💔💗 sending love and hugs xxx
Niki I’m so sorry you had to go through this pain too! Thank you for your kind words and support, I might be in touch. Xxx
I'm so so sorry. Sending you massive virtual hugs. Xxx
I am so sorry for your loss xx 💔
Oh dear, I am so sorry .😥😥
I am so sorry to hear that! Take time to heal and grieve. Sending you love and hugs.
There are no words right now to soothe your broken heart 💔 I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Take care of yourself as best you can in the coming days and weeks. X
I am so sorry my love. There are no words that will help right now but look after yourselves. You will be in my thoughts. Sending love xxx
So so sorry to hear this. Totally heartbreaking for you all. Never think that you are silly to hope for your dreams. Take care of yourself Xx
Im so sorry for your loss!! Utterly devastating and cruel to have to go through this. Of course you are not silly to think your dreams can come true....after all that what we're all here for!! Love at hugs at this awful time.xx
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Oh no I’m so very sorry, to get that close is so cruel. No you’re not silly- hope is the only thing that keeps us going. I hope you lots of support xxx
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I am so sorry to hear this. Look after yourself and give yourself time to grieve xxxx
Oh love, I am so so so sorry. Sending hugs. You will get through this. ❤️❤️❤️ xxxxx
So sorry for your loss, I have been through similar so know some of what you feel. All you are feeling is completely normal. I had surgery too and I found it a relief that it was over physically but its taken lots lots longer for the mental scars to heal and I am not sure they have really I think I have just hidden them away. You do feel better eventually I promise, but now is a time for grieving and support from your friends and family. Look after yourself and PM if you have any questions xx
Thank you - your words and support mean so much xxx
I’m so sorry. I had two natural miscarriages and two failed ivfs but I kept going and my dream did come true eventually. I hope it will for you too. Hold on to some hope and be kind to yourself x
Thank you for your caring words and for your experience of hope xxx
Oh I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending big gigantic hugs Xx I have no words to ease your heartbreak. Look after yourself & each other Xx
Thank you xxx
I’m so sorry to hear this 😢 sending you love, look after yourself xx
I’m so so sorry. We experienced this too, my heart breaks for you 💔. For what it’s worth I don’t think it’s silly to believe at all. If you hadn’t believed it wouldn’t have meant you would be in any less pain right now. It’s brave to believe. And I think hope is so important both for mind & body on this difficult rollercoaster of a journey. Will be thinking of you on Monday. Take care lovely xxx
Thank you so much for your kind words , it means more then you could know. Xx
Oh I’m so so sorry to hear this, that’s devastation, nothing anyone can say to you to ease the pain, but you are in my thought , hope you have some good support around you xx
Your kind words bring some comfort xx
I’m so sorry, sending hugs xx
Thank you all for your kind words they mean more then you can know at this time! The kindness of strangers who understand is such a comfort xxx
Sorry for your loss. Praying for your family
I am so sorry for your loss. It’s so devastating and my thoughts are with you. I lost my baby at 18 weeks pregnancy back in March so I know the heartache you feel. Take time to grieve and process the loss. xx
So sorry for your loss 😔 xxx
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so cruel to have a loss this late. Sending hugs and strength ❤️
I'm so sorry about your loss, it's so cruel to be given hope and then to have it taken away just like that. I know there are no comforting word to help ease the pain. I hope you have a supporting network at home and especially after Monday. The pain will get easier with time but the loss will remain with you with forever. Sending you hugs xx
So sorry about this.
I’m really sorry to hear this. Life is so unfair. Thinking of you and sending love and strength during this heartbreaking time
more heartbreak - any advice?
10 week scan was all ok but... 
Bloating and gas - 10 weeks pregnant. 
Another possible heartbreak
10 week scan 
