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first FET 14/6/23 - need positive vibes, TWW so hard 😭😭

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Hi myself and my husband had our first FET (think it was a 5bb 5 day blastocyst and they were very enthusiastic of how "beautiful" it looked) on wednesday 14th june so im 2DPT and im already so anxious and obsessing over symptoms as i feel nothing.

We have already had 1 x fresh transfer in March which failed.

I need some positive vibes or stories to help today! Do you all honestly thibk if you feel no cramps/ twinges few days after that you are out of the game? Thats how i feel.

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CornflowerMoon

Hey, every experience will be different but I honestly don't think not having symptoms yet means it hasn't worked. It's really early days and you're bound to analyse everything that is or isn't happening but in reality there's no way to really know until test day. Remember the additional hormones can cause your body to react differently as well. Good luck.

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Clowden in reply to CornflowerMoon

thank you. I see in your bio you got your BFP last month. Did you have any symptoms after your FET? I know everyone is different and all the meds but just good to hear different peoples experiences.

Thanks and congrats!!!

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CornflowerMoon in reply to Clowden

Thank you! I had mild cramps and backaches start about 5 days after transfer, which got more frequent and intense over the next few days. It felt very much like period pains but would go away very quickly. This carried on until about day 12 when the cramps settled down but I had some very light pink/brown discharge a couple of times. Cramps and backache do still happen several times a day. I had my 7 week scan yesterday and all is looking good 😊 I hope you get good news!

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Clowden in reply to CornflowerMoon

aw congrats - beautiful news! So happy for you! And thank you for responding - really appreciate your time. Really hope this is it for us too!🤞🤞

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CornflowerMoon in reply to Clowden

Aw thank yoy. Also, just so say I found the TWW really difficult as well, it seems to stretch on forever so I know how you feel. Try to do things you enjoy and just go easy on yourself!

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Cupcake1990

Best of luck my fresh cycle failed today we have a 3ab and 4ba embryo in storage take a break then going for my first frozen to lots of sticky baby dust x

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Clowden in reply to Cupcake1990

sorry to hear about your little fresh not working - we experienced that too and its not nice but knowing you have 2 x more frosties gave me some hope. I wish you all the best on your journey xx

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Cupcake1990 in reply to Clowden

Thank u it was a early loss 3 days before test date a positive thrn otd negative we will try again next year fingers crossed for you c

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Hopewhite

hi I hope you’re well, be kind to yourself it’s still very early , and each body responds differently. No symptoms is not a bad thing, it could lead to a positive result.

If I discount all the digestion issues I had, I’d say I had almost no symptoms, I only got mild cramps on the second day which I totally put down to being super bloated and the night before my OTD which made me worry about being my actual period. Almost all symptoms are related to progesterone, so it’s really hard to be reading from them, better to wait till your OTD xx

Try to do something nice to distract your mind from all this xx , sleep well, eat well and try to see family/friends x

Sending you loads of hope and good luck in your journey xxx

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Clowden in reply to Hopewhite

thank you Hopewhite ❤️

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Hopenevergiveup

I had no symptoms at all when it worked for me first time xx best of luck

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Catlover88

I’m almost in your exact situation! I had first fresh transfer in February which unfortunately ended in BFN.

Had my first frozen transfer on 15th June (also 5BB and had enthusiastic noises over how good the embryo was!)

I had my progesterone tested the day before transfer and it came back at 19 so I’ve been panicking it’s already over. But I’ve been put on Lubion injections which apparently increase levels really quickly. I also have had a cold and hayfever this week and have been trying to get over that whilst going through transfer!

I’ve got no symptoms so far apart from slightly sore boobs but that will be down to progesterone and they hurt a lot less than my fresh in Feb!

It’s so hard not to symptom spot but we’ve got a 8/9 days to go, so early days! Sending you all the luck, and hoping you get your BFP!

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Clowden in reply to Catlover88

aww thank you for your reply. Look at us on similar situations, its so hard isnt it? Im trying not to symptom spot but its hard not too but equally its only day 4 so super early!!! Hope ur on the mend from your cold, hard enouh to have a cold on top aswell, bless.

Im on progesterone injections too but have been since prep before FET.

keep in touch and really hope we get out BFP

X

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OurMiracleBabies in reply to Catlover88

Similar... transfered on 15th June. Wish us luck .

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Clowden in reply to Catlover88

how you feeling?

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OurMiracleBabies

Wishing you all the best.

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Eggfreezer2015

Sending positive vibes and wishing you all the best xx

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