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Hi everyone, had my transfer Tuesday, it wasn’t a straight forward one and then received a call from work to say I am up for redundancy. I’m back in work today but really struggling to stay positive but I know I need to. It’s so hard to be positive in a negative environment. Anyone got any positive words to get me through the day? Thanks x

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Cinderella5

Hey, I dont really have any words of advice but wanted to wish you luck and I hope you get your BFP....Ive just had my latest BFN - my positive words yesterday were "Im feeling battered and bruised but not broken"! I know its easy for me to say but keep your chin up and try to stay positive, you can do this!xx

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E_05

Sorry I don’t have any words of wisdom but wanted to wish you lots of luck and positivity for your BFP. The added pressure definitely difficult but you can get through this xx

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Gem1982 in reply to E_05

Thanks, I have survived the day so hoping and praying that my embie sticks x

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Fredaflintstone

Sorry to hear you’re having a hard time. Wishing you lots of luck for for bfp. You’ll find other work and may even like it more xxx

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Hormomalmess

I went through redundancy during my ivf cycle and it was stressful. I am still with the same company but in a different role which is great for me and I am happier now than before. It's a bit cheesy but sometimes things happen for a reason.

I hope all gets sorted for your job Hun. Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you a speedy 2ww xx

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Gem1982 in reply to Hormomalmess

Thanks for your reply, they say things happen for a reason so just going to go with it!

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WaywardGirl

You may need to speak to HR if they don’t already know you are on IVF as legally you are classed as pregnant from the point of ET

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Dreams1982 in reply to WaywardGirl

Yup defo speak to HR!! Xx good luck xx

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AmbK

Hey, sending you love and good luck with your FET. :)

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Gem1982 in reply to AmbK

Thank you, I’m feeling so much more positive after everyones messages x x

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