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a little advice from my midwife to all the bleeders out there

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I am currently 5 weeks and 3 days pregnant. Well I hope I still am. Who knows. I have just spent 2 days bleeding 🩸 like I’m on my period changing pads every hour and a bit. Passing clots in toilet etc. NO cramping. My beta on Wednesday was 2474,0 I/UI

As there is no way in telling if little bean is ok (no heartbeat at this stage and beta will be redone on Tuesday) I have to wait and “rest”. Like resting made the blood stop 😏

I finally asked her what she thinks is happening as someone who has had 7 miscarriages I ain’t that hopeful. She told me would be very rare at this point to be a miscarriage as progesterone was high and still on it and embryo was a 5 day AA blast.

She gave me this explanation:

it’s to do with the trophoblast reaction, so the embryo wanting to deeply dig into the endometrium

Then maternal vessels are opened and it bleeds "from the side".

Also, it is more common after IVF. Over 80% of women have a bleeding sometime in the first three months. It is super common.

I just wanted to share this with anyone like me worrying and counting every hour till some news wether good or bad comes my way.

many major bleeders out there with success stories? I’m talking major blood at some point. Standing in shower with blood running down my legs major 😌

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KiboXX profile image
KiboXX

Hey lovely,

I’m not on here often these days but just saw your post and wanted to send you a big hug! I’m so so hopeful for you that this is a sticky bean but I know given your history why you are so worried.

I hope it helps to hear that I had a huge bleed early on when I was pregnant with Zach (my second little miracle). I mean, soaked through all my clothes, was huge. Far far worse than when I had previously had a miscarriage to be honest, the only big difference was I had no cramping at all whereas was in a lot of pain with my loss. It turned out to be a subchorionic hematoma and apparently they are quite common in IVF pregnancies.

Sending you lots of hugs and I hope the next couple of weeks hurry on up for you so you can get a scan and some definitive answers xxx

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Corchi in reply to KiboXX

thank you love. So nice to hear from you and what a reassuring post. Made me feel so much better thank you! How long did the bleeding last? I’m day 3 of proper blood all day long :-(

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Corchi in reply to KiboXX

am now bleeding tissue chunks of blood the size of my palm 🥲

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Skittles11 in reply to Corchi

This must be really scary, I don't have any stories to share I'm afraid but thinking of you and it looks like there are a lot of hopeful experiences being shared x

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Corchi in reply to Skittles11

so scary you get on a state of numbness because of disbelief! Thank you so much for your kind words really means a lot

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Infragilis in reply to KiboXX

I'm currently 6 weeks and started bleeding. No cramps yet but I just woke up and my breast tenderness has disappeared. Did you experience this? I know these signs are usually indicative of a miscarriage so not feeling great. Might go repeat hcg as till 3 days ago it was still high and doubling but now it may show if there is a problem.

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Trying6years

In terms of bleeding and still being pregnant - yes same as you, huge bleed, running down in shower but no cramps. It later eased off and I had my cervix checked and it was closed, I was 6 weeks. Spent the weekend believing it was all over before having a scan and saw the heartbeat and all was well. I had been spotting brown blood before the bleed then continued to spot brown, pink and red afterwards until around 12 weeks (coincidentally when stopping meds) - I won't lie I was constantly anxious and hated going to the toilet but had 5 scans and everything was perfect (until the 20 week one but it was unrelated to the bleeding, baby had very rare congenital abnormalites).

So a bleed does not mean the pregnancy won't progress.

I was told throughout that bleeding was common but it does not make it easier does it, the worry steals the joy, each time I had a scan I would feel better for a day or two then back to worrying. I really hope everything is fine - your beta and no cramps are really good signs, just try and keep your mind busy until the scan if you can. Really sorry about your previous pregnancies xx

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Corchi in reply to Trying6years

thank you that was so reassuring to hear. I’m so sorry for your loss at such a late stage. How awful. I hope you have or will get your miracle baby soon. ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for replying xx

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Infragilis in reply to Trying6years

I'm currently 6 weeks and started bleeding. No cramps yet but I just woke up and my breast tenderness has disappeared. Did you experience this? I know these signs are usually indicative of a miscarriage so not feeling great. Might go repeat hcg as till 3 days ago it was still high and doubling but now it may show if there is a problem.

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Trying6years in reply to Infragilis

Breast tenderness was not a good indicator for me as it came and went which I think is common, I had a 'full' feeling in them more often than soreness. It is a good sign that there are no cramps. If it is bright red bleeding or a lot of it then it is worth being checked, they scanned me at 6 weeks 4 days. But if it is brown it and a little amount it is usually old and they say not to worry. Of course we will all worry anyway but try not to read into every little symptom as they can come and go and also the meds can cause them too rather than the pregnancy x

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Infragilis in reply to Trying6years

Thank you for your reply. I have my scan tomorrow which should give us more answers. The tenderness came back and the bleeding stopped. I checked my hcg which has continued to rise so I'm hoping tomorrow will be ok but you never know with these things! Thank you again for your reply, appreciated.

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Twiglet2

yes had lots of bleeding much more than miscarriage I described it as a crime scene! I had it twice like like with hug clots but bleed continuously for about a month. It was a subchorionic hematoma which does put the pregnancy at higher risk of miscarriage as it can detach the placenta so it was lots of rest for me and by 8-10 weeks it had resolved itself luckily and they could no longer see it at my scans (I was scanned weekly from 5.5 weeks until then. I did have some cramping but I think that was due to passing the huge clots through my cervix (which was still ‘long and closed’ at the scans. I hope it all works out for you I know how extremely scary it is and the constant feeling of anxiety 💜 sending love xx

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Corchi in reply to Twiglet2

thanks so much for this - reassuring as yesterday I literally sat in toilet and passed clots size of my palm

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Infragilis in reply to Twiglet2

I'm currently 6 weeks and started bleeding. No cramps yet but I just woke up and my breast tenderness has disappeared. Did you experience this? I know these signs are usually indicative of a miscarriage so not feeling great. Might go repeat hcg as till 3 days ago it was still high and doubling but now it may show if there is a problem.

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Effie1988

Hi Corchi,

For our first IVF FET we had bleeding around week 7. It was bright red and we were convinced it was a miscarriage. Went for a scan and were told everything is fine, it’s just implantation bleeding.

Wishing you all the best.

It’s definitely an emotional journey. We were lucky that we now have a little girl however since we have been through OHSS, 4 failed FETs (with PGTA tested blastocysts) and 1 cancelled. Starting to lose hope we will have a second.

Sending love and hope it all turns out well.

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Corchi in reply to Effie1988

thank you so much , pray for your second miracle 🌈🌈🌈⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Pos1tivelybaby

I had a sub chorionic bleed from about week 7/8 to 32 weeks. The first month or so, I had massive clots with it. It was like a downpour most times, so scary. It lessened over time but I still bled up to 32 weeks. It was a natural conception and she’s now a fiesty 5 year old delivered by planned c-section at 39 weeks!

It’s terrifying but try to stay positive. Keeping everything crossed for you xx

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Infragilis in reply to Pos1tivelybaby

I'm currently 6 weeks and started bleeding. No cramps yet but I just woke up and my breast tenderness has disappeared. Did you experience this? I know these signs are usually indicative of a miscarriage so not feeling great. Might go repeat hcg as till 3 days ago it was still high and doubling but now it may show if there is a problem.

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Pos1tivelybaby in reply to Infragilis

Sorry I don’t remember when my breast heaviness stopped, I think probably around the 10 week mark, but it could have been that I just got used to it or was distracted by all the bleeding x

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Infragilis in reply to Pos1tivelybaby

Thank you for your reply. I have my scan tomorrow which should give us more answers. The tenderness came back and the bleeding stopped. I checked my hcg which has continued to rise so I'm hoping tomorrow will be ok but you never know with these things! Thank you again for your reply, appreciated.

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Corchi in reply to Infragilis

how many days in between did you leave to check for hcg. I did one Sunday

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Infragilis in reply to Corchi

I did one on Tuesday and Thursday last week to compare numbers going up and I repeated one this Tuesday.

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Corchi in reply to Infragilis

so 5 days in between last one. That’s loads of time to make sure. So I wouldn’t worry at all sweetie. Tomorrow I’ll do one also be 5 days later 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Infragilis in reply to Corchi

Big good luck with the test 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Corchi in reply to Infragilis

🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

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Corchi in reply to Pos1tivelybaby

thank you sweety. Means so much xxx

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Corchi

thank you so much these stories that prove it can be something else other than a miscarriage give me so much hope still!

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ButtercupGarden

Hi Corchi, another fellow bleeder here! I had two massive bleeds (soaked through underwear, pad and clothes) when I was about 5/6 weeks too. I had some weird stabby cramps at the same time. I was certain it was a miscarriage but turned out to be a haematoma and I'm now 19w! Keeping my fingers crossed that you have something similar xxx

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Corchi in reply to ButtercupGarden

thank you so much. Waiting for beta results any minute. Xxxx

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Gemstone78

I had 2 major bleeds in first 7 weeks also on Christmas Eve and New Year’s Day so no where even open to get checked … first time on toilet the bowl was full of blood went on for a day second time again on toilet and bowl full of blood this went in for few days with tissue also coming out scans I’m 4 th Jan when ivf clinic opened showed cervix closed … I was still having brown spotting at this stage and they just said it’s not coming from baby or sack - I couldn’t believe it that the baby was still there after all the bleeding. The spotting lasted weeks my nerves were wrecked

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Corchi in reply to Gemstone78

oh wow identical to me. I have bled more in last 3 days than in any period. Chunks coming out the size of a burger. Horrific blood bath. I’m numb because I just can’t believe baby would be ok. Went to do beta today in an open hospital. Waiting for results in next hour

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PPea

So sorry for this situation, it’s just terrible! I do not have any experience to share, but do hope that you have a good outcome 🤍 Hopping that you have good news anytime now 🤞🤞🤞

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Corchi in reply to PPea

beta just came back it’s all fine. Quite unbelievable. Have to bed rest as it’s probably placenta abruption xxx thank you for your thoughts

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PPea

Wow, that’s wonderful news!!! So happy to hear this 🤍🤍🤍

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Corchi in reply to PPea

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Corchi

amazed and shocked beyond belief. After bleeding what seemed to be my insides out with blood tissues etc the beta numbers have progressed and are more than satisfactory!!! Over the moon thought the journey is still so early xxx thank you for all your support. Now bed rest and prayers 😌

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Solly-44 in reply to Corchi

Oh Corchi what a stress! Hopefully the bed rest does the trick, great news your hcg is progressing well. Biggest hugs! Xx

Corchi profile image
Corchi in reply to Solly-44

thank you so much

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Infragilis in reply to Corchi

Glad to hear your good news and I feel for you as I'm going through the same thing. Such a tough journey. I hope all continues to go well for you xx

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Corchi in reply to Infragilis

good news will

Be on Tuesday when I do first scan :-))) for now just praying it’s still in there 😌😌😌

Thank you so much for your hopeful words and right back at you. How far along are you ?

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Infragilis in reply to Corchi

We have our first scan tomorrow. I'm dreading it. I am 6 weeks 4 days.

Corchi profile image
Corchi in reply to Infragilis

I can imagine. Mine is Tuesday and I’m feeling sick. Will do a beta test tomorrow so I know otherwise what’s point :-(

Infragilis profile image
Infragilis in reply to Corchi

Yeah the beta tests are putting my mind at ease a bit, although my doctors keep telling me to stop testing as it's for nothing. I don't know why they said that because I find that knowing there is development helps.

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Corchi in reply to Infragilis

odd I wonder why too

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Woody2019

I was a work one day I was was 5+5 weeks pregnant, felt like a sense of pressure! Went to the toilet and had heavy bleeding and clots! I was heartbroken! Hcg was really high through, scan revealed baby ok but did have an area of bleed seen on scan so told to keep everything crossed! Had another big bleed at 9 weeks! Guessing area of bleed (bruise/ hematoma) bled out and nothing noticed at 12 week scan!

It was a super Rocky scary start but I’ve made it to 23 weeks, feeling positive this baby is my take home baby.

I have everything crossed for you my lovely ♥️

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Corchi in reply to Woody2019

what a wonderful story in the end ! Thank you so much. So much love here xxx

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magda22

Oh mate, what a stressful turn of events. So glad you have had good news. Much love for a smooth continuation xx

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Corchi in reply to magda22

thank you sweet thing xxx

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ChelWestie

hi Corchi, I had Subchorionic haematoma from week 6-9 and my little fighter is now 28weeks!! stay positive and take your rest ✨

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Corchi in reply to ChelWestie

thank you so much! Currently sitting on couch day 4 “resting” so hard to do, I just want to fast forward and get to scan day :-) grateful for now bleeding seems to have diminished only slight drops when i pee but still fresh fresh blood 🩸

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HJP2018

I am literally going through the exact same thing right now at 5 weeks 4 days. I am bleeding and passed big clots on Sunday. When I rest no bleeding except a little after wiping.

Your story is giving me so much hope 🤞

Mine was a 5 day FET AA.

I am going for an early scan on Wednesday trying to cling onto hope whilst being realistic!

Sending you all the luck in the world ❤️

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Corchi in reply to HJP2018

aaa exact same I’m 5w and 5 days (did it on 6/2) isn’t Wednesday too soon? I wish I was going in on Wednesday but they told me 7/3 🥲🥲🥲best of luck to you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Corchi in reply to HJP2018

and also exact same 5 day AA !!!

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HJP2018

I had the transfer on 7/2. My IVF clinic won’t scan me until 6/2 but the early pregnancy unit at my hospital are scanning me on Wednesday as they said worse case they won’t see much and I will see wait until Monday but worth a try xx

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Corchi in reply to HJP2018

maybe you will be able to confirm if it’s a hematoma. I hope all goes well for you xxx🤞🤞

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