Is there still hope 10dpft

[KediT]

Hi all looking for someone who has witnessed a miracle of testing positive at day 12 after a negative test on day 10.

I’m 10dpt with a day 6 frozen embryo and tested negative. I just wonder if there’s still hope because I honestly think this is the end. Iv been on utrogestan 400mg split orally & under 3 times a day and estrofem 4mg twice a day with folic acid & all the other supplements/vitamins. In a normal cycle I should have been on my period since Thursday, does it mean it will only start when I stop the meds or do people still get the period whilst on meds?

My OTD is in 2 days time I had a good cry on day 8 and I think it kinda prepared me although my heart still sank after the negative test this morning… thank you in advance for taking the time to read this….

[hifer]

So sorry my love. I really am. We are in the same boat as you know. We even have the same OTD by the sound of things. I never get my period whilst taking progesterone but some do.

Some people go on to get a positive after day 10 but it’s less likely if I’m honest. It also depends on what you transferred (mine was day 5 blasto) so even less likely. Don’t mean to be brutal but sometimes raising hopes to have them dashed again is even less helpful.

I will be stopping meds tomorrow I think. Don’t think I can carry on until Tuesday. I’m not saying you should do the same as official advice is always to carry on until OTD. I just know that I’m personally out.

Sending massive hugs. I know how it feels.

Xx

[KediT in reply to hifer]

thanks dearest yah I think it is always good to say it like it is. I honestly think I’m out as well this was a roller coaster. It was my 1st FET and so far I don’t think I’m mentally fit honestly for IVF. It is torture

[hifer in reply to KediT]

Ah hun I’m so sorry. I’m afraid it is torture. There is not really any sugar coating it and the kicker is that there are no reassurances that it will work in the end. There are loads of success stories here though (including mine as we have a daughter from our 3rd transfer). You will be feeling terrible now but in a few weeks you’ll be in a much better position to be able to make a plan to move forward. Wishing you all the best xx