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I had my FET of a day 5 blastocyst last Thursday am day 5 post transfer and stupidity tested with an afternoon urine sample and got a BFN … is day 5 too early to test or am I really out of the game already? Always say 2ww is like Pandora’s box and testing early is like opening the box. Anyone in my same situation please let me know

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Boo718

Day 5 is too early. Put the tests away and try to relax xxx

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Saddoc in reply to Boo718

thanks figured as much but the urge to test was tooo strong

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Boo718 in reply to Saddoc

it’s soo difficult not too. I just didn’t have any in the house. It will honestly make you go insane and cause soo much stress xxx I’ve got everything crossed for you xxx

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Saddoc in reply to Boo718

thanks. Didn’t have any in the house until I decided to buy them after a hard day at work.. wrong choice clearly. Anyway sitting tight now till test day

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lianm8

If you had your transfer last Thursday are you 4 days past today rather than 5? 4/5 days is still very early I would try & hold out for a few more days! I know how had it is xx

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Beba9728

Hi Saddoc,

Oh my god I’m in the exactly same boat🫢

I had my FET 5blast on Friday. 3 days post embryo transfer and is literally as AF is around the corner, so freaked out and tested today 4dpt and obviously is a BFN!

I know it’s way too early but those cramps are not giving me much hope😩

Have you got any symptoms?

Finger crossed and baby dust💕

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Saddoc in reply to Beba9728

hung in there. Told my consultant about my stupidity and she said it’s way too early to test so am not doing it anymore.

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Beba9728 in reply to Saddoc

oh blessed you. I will try not to either but the temptation is too high haha.

Hope everything turns out well for us🤞

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Jyute

I am the very same I had my fet last Fri morning and tested yesterday bfn no symptoms whatsoever only like pms cramping off and on but I feel like all my pms symptoms are here I'm craving chocolate, I'm irritable etc. No spotting or sore boobs. I have only one with this clinic so it's our last chance. I'd 2 failed fet previously. I'm 39. I did the chromosome testing, I did the receptive testing so gave it the best chance but I feel defeated since tbh. With my last 2 fet I had no symptoms and it was a bfn

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Saddoc in reply to Jyute

I am the same got no symptoms apart from bloating due to the ridiculous amount of drugs. Feel like am out of the game now . Testing day is on Saturday so not going to do any other tests. Whatever will be will be

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Hopecontinues in reply to Jyute

Hi,

I only had period like cramps at your stage. My transfer was last week Monday. It wasn't until 8dpt that I had implantation bleeding, so you're definitely still in with a chance. Oh and I'm very irritable. 🤣

Good luck

X

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Jyute in reply to Hopecontinues

Thanks so much for your reply its made me feel better, I did the digital this morning and it's bfn so disheartened but I'll try keep up hope xx

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Saddoc in reply to Jyute

My consultant is of the opinion that urine tests are not accurate . The digital test I think it’s sensitivity is about 25 meaning they will not pick up anything below 25. So just try and chill like I am trying to do and whatever happens happens.

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Rkaur111

hey! I had my FET on 7th feb, I’m now 8dpt with 5d blastocyst I tested negative is it too early to test. So disheartened been so upset. My first cycle gave me a positive but misscarried at 6 weeks. I feel pregnant but know that could be meds too. Is there still time for a BDP?? Xxxx

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Saddoc in reply to Rkaur111

only way to know for sure is by bloods. Mine was negative .

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Rkaur111 in reply to Saddoc

sorry to hear that, thoughts are with you. My test day is the 20th hopefully I still have time x

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