So our third 2ww begins

So today was et day and I feel extremely deflated I burst out crying during transfer.

On Saturday we had 6 good embryos but the time we got to the clinic this afternoon we had 1 early stage blastocyst. The other 5 were 6-8 cells the embryologist was so lovely and said they will watch them for another day but I have no hope they will catch up.

Looks like we won't have any to freeze again. This is our third cycle and am devastated we have never had any to freeze.

Starting to question will this ever happen for us 😢.

Good luck to everyone else on the 2ww xx

[Cinderella5]

It is rubbish when you have none to freeze, can understand you completely having been there myself! However, you do have one little fighter there so there is still hope there! Wishing you loads of luck!xx

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[Elizabeth86]

Just wanted to say I felt this deflation and sadness too. We had one transfered and none frozen. I really hope these ones are the special ones for us. I also had the day wait to find out about the frozena and found it really helpful to just go out for the day for a walk and some lunch to keep my mind occupied! Sending best wishes xxx

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Thank you hope your 2ww is going ok. Wishing you lots of luck xx

[TTCs]

Hi Katrina1986, i had none to freeze either and its rly upsetting, it feels like you've lost the back up plan! Good news is youve a blastocyst bavk where it belongs! I hope he/she is "the one" sending u all my best wishes 💞

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[Tugsgirl]

How bitterly disappointing for you both 😞 I really hope the little one you have on board is already doing what it’s supposed to be doing in preparation for making you its home for the next 9 months. Good luck xx

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[Lizzielizzielizzie]

We had two being watched to day six and both made blastocyst! In addition to two which made blastocyst on day five. This is despite my two previous rounds ending up with a sum total of one blastocyst (just one out of two rounds). So don’t give up hope, some slow coaches do turn into blasts on day six xx

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Thank you unfortunately they did not catch up xx

[Ash2016]

We've never had any to freeze either, it's so gutting so I totally understand how you feel. BUT you've got an amazing little blastocyst that could be your little baby in the making. Good luck for the next two weeks xxx

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[Lou7744]

Aww... remember- it only takes the one! Wishing you lots of luck 💕 xx

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[Dunla]

So sorry Katrina, I do know how utterly awful this feels. You put so much effort into the cycle and then end up feeling like you’ve been completely short changed. Hoping that little embryo you had put back today is going to stay put. Wishing you so much luck for your 2ww xx

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[Smang]

Best of luck on the 2ww, sending positive vibes your way and hope this one sticks xx

[KateEdison]

Hey there. Hope you are feeling fine now. I am sorry to hear about you. It is definitely difficult to handle such a pressure. But honey, you have to stay calm and positive. Stress is not at all good for you. I have studied articles related to stress. The research has proven that it is not good for health especially in TTC days. You must try to stay relaxed. Stay hopeful. You will be conceiving soon. You are gonna hold your baby in your arms soon. All you have to do is to stay relaxed and strong. Try to spend more time with your DH and with the people you love. It will help you in staying peaceful. Best wishes. Lots of baby dust on your way.

[Aleelilook]

Oh can totally understand your disappointment and sadness, we never got to freeze anything when using my eggs, and it is absolutely gutting as we put so much into the numbers, however embryos are definitely happier back where they belong, so wishing you luck that this emby is the one! Xxxx

[vic77]

we never got any frosties our first two cycles so I know that feeling well..hold out for those wee fighters if you can and try to feel positive for your embryo being back home...easy for me to day as I am on my 5th 2ww and positivity a bit lacking here too but know I am sending hope and love xxx

[Violet5451]

Sorry to hear this. I was gutted when we had none to freeze and I know how disappointing it can be and how much more pressure you can feel. Remember though.. it only takes one!! Wishing you lots of luck xxx

[clover111]

Katrina please don't get depressed. It will definitely work this time. Have faith in God. I appreciate your continuity. This is your third 2ww. That means you are such a brave lady. Most of the ladies lose hope even after one failure. The main thing is that you have to stay positive. The more positive you stay the more positive results come. I have seen many people who have got everything in their lives only because of their positivity. I am sure you have selected the best clinic for you to have your ivf. I have also planned my Ivf. The clinic i have selected is very famous all over the world because of its services. The results are almost 100%. So, you also whenever select a clinic for yourself, gather all the information about that. Also the reviews of the people about that clinic. its really important.

[Hidden]

Wishing you all the luck and love in the world. Just about to start medication now and catching up on all the lovely people on here. Thinking of you xx