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BFN again 😢. What now and home vs away…

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Another BFN result on Friday, This was my last embryo and my 4th cycle in total. I am devastated. Unfortunately the first three cycles were all done prior to me finding out I had damaged tubes (which are now removed). I’m almost 39 and need to consider if we proceed with anymore ICSI cycles. I feel like I’ve lost all hope and not sure how much heartache I can continue to go through. But on the other hand I feel like my first three cycles were pointless as I never had a chance with my leaking tubes.

One of my thoughts is whether to go abroad. Has anyone got experience of switching to an overseas clinic after only using a UK one and can anyone share their experience of what’s involved with me? I’d be starting from scratch and need to know whether I’ll have to be away for long periods of time etc.

Also if you could privately message me any recommendations of clinics abroad that would be great.

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Rumi40

I would suggest to go to serum in Athens, they are amazing xx

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MyLittlePinkness in reply toRumi40

I second that!

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I have never done IVF in UK- always abroad but I can say that the process is not complicated at all. The clinic takes care of everything and most clinics offer a free video call consultation with a dedicated person to answer your calls. I was itch my clinic for 7 years before we were successful. The longest I had to stay was 6 days for fresh so of transfer or back when I was still trying with my own eggs during the retrieval stage. A few times I flew there in the morning and took the evening flight back. All very manageable. I will dm you my clinic’s name.. I think they were amazing and always had my full trust. Good luck 🤞🏽

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Crie1983 in reply toBozo_the_pumpkin

Thank you. Yes please I’d really appreciate if you could DM me. X

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