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TWW craziness slowly creeping in ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Today I'm 7dp5dt - my 4th transfer and first FET. No real question just more a general chat with like minded people!

I've managed to keep pretty busy which is good but of course still papping my pants every day. Its very different to any other tww as in I have very little "symptoms" - I know from experience any symptoms can simply be off the drugs anyway and all my previous transfers I've had sore boobs, cramps but resulted in BFN's!

Just fancied off loading a little and wishing all others in the tww club the best of luck!

Side note - im going out tonight for my sister in laws bday who has her 12 week scan tomorrow and is going to announce her pregnancy ahh the joys ๐Ÿ˜‚ xxx

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As you know each cycle of treatment can be completely different as can your 2WW - so sending a big hug to you and your other halfTake care

Janet

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Betty08x in reply to JA-fnuk

Thanks for your well wishes Janet means a lot! We are hanging in there xx

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Gempuddleduck

So frustrating that she is announcing anyway, even worse that you canโ€™t have a drink!

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Betty08x in reply to Gempuddleduck

Well after all my anticipation there was no announcement ๐Ÿ˜… my mother in law told me they are having their scan today then telling people as they see them (off to prepare my congratulatory face ๐Ÿ˜‚) xx

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SianieShorts

I totally get where you are coming from. I am 8dp5dt and going a little crazy. Constantly symptom checking but actually nothing really to reportโ€ฆthough I never really have had any symptoms and Iโ€™ve had 2 BFPs in the past. Just wanted to say hang in there, you are not alone and good luck to you xxx

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Betty08x in reply to SianieShorts

Hi lovely nice to hear from someone who gets it, I try to talk to my sisters who are amazing but it's never really the same as with someone who also experiences the craziness of it all.

You can't help but wonder what each little feeling or lack of means! We have done good to get to 8 days ๐Ÿ’ช the nerves are really ramping up now as test day gets closer. I have a couple things on over the weekend to keep me busy until the finish line ๐Ÿ˜‚ hope you are managing okay! Wishing you so much luck too ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ xxx

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hsfi

Hi just to say Im in the same boat as you, transfer last Saturday and now in TWW. Time is going so slowly! I don't have any symptoms either, this is our first time so not got much to compare to but just to say I'm in the same boat as you! :) x

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Betty08x in reply to hsfi

Lovely to hear from a fellow tww buddy! Have you been doing much to keep busy? Hope you are doing okay. I've packed this tww with loads to try and occupy my mind which works a teeny bit haha I know its still so early days and in natural pregnancy would possibly have no symptoms anyway so just have to wait it out but its hard๐Ÿ˜… wishing you tons of luck!xxx

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hsfi in reply to Betty08x

Yes and you, Ive kept working so that keeps me busy in the week and then in the evenings/weekends but trying to chill - reading, yoga, meditation, jigsaws etc. It does feel like a long wait! How you doing this week? Wishing you all the luck too xx

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Harley1977

Hi there I transferred on Saturday itโ€™s 6dp4dt ,, 2 embies , but have been in this positive twice before and nothing sticks . Was told itโ€™s a hydrosalpinx so had surgery before this new attempt . But in all of the transfers I have awful cramps and tiredness even up until last night but always negative in the end ! Same symptoms now too with frequent cramps esp at night โ€” so feeling normal so good thinkings itโ€™s not stuck again !!

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Betty08x in reply to Harley1977

Hi Harley, okay this is good that you have carried out further investigations before this transfer, this could be the change that makes all the difference! What you've described could certainly be side effects from the drugs or early pregnancy there really is no way of knowing until test day. Please keep the faith in your 2 little embies, you have done amazing to get to this stage and this could be your time ๐Ÿฅฐxxx

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Harley1977

Thank Betty ! 5dp4dt still negative

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Betty08x in reply to Harley1977

Very early days yet! I've seen lots of people not get a faint line till 7/8 even 9 days. I would try and wait it out at least a couple more. I've been too scared to test as yet OTD is Monday I going to try wait it out till Sunday ๐Ÿ˜…xxx

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haylady

Iโ€™m in my 8th day post transfer and have my blood test on Monday. It is my first transfer and the only embryo out of 9 to develop normally to day 3 (first round was a complete wipe out as all 5 embryos failed to develop and this is round 2 where only 1 out of 4 was viable). Iโ€™ve had no symptoms other than a swollen belly and bloating. Iโ€™ve been using progesterone pessaries which are messy little buggers! Iโ€™m absolutely dreading Monday and yet willing it to hurry up all at the same time. I have mainly felt hopeful but as the big day approaches reality is kicking in and Iโ€™m so scared Iโ€™m going to get bad news on Monday and my wee bubble will be burst. I donโ€™t know if everyone gets this but they gave me a photo of my tiny embryo once it was in place post transfer and I just look at the little speck and wish so much that it will work. Love and best wishes to everyone going through the same agonising wait. We should all be so proud of ourselves for everything weโ€™ve done so far โ™ฅ๏ธ

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Betty08x in reply to haylady

You are very right weโ€™ve done amazing to get to this stage, so pleased to hear this round gave you your little embryo โ˜บ๏ธ My test day is Monday too and I couldnโ€™t agree more as the day approaches the nerves are ramping up! as at the minute Iโ€™m quite enjoying day dreaming of how things might be ๐Ÿ™๐ŸผI went private for this round and also got the pic at transfer which was lovely and just had a peak at it there after reading this ๐Ÿฅฐ Il be thinking of you come Monday too and praying that itโ€™s great news all round ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ Xxx

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Creamie

We have a lot in common. Iโ€™m also in my 2WW, 4th transfer and first FET! Iโ€™m hoping the FET is what makes the difference for me as all my previous transfers resulted in BFN. My OTD is Tuesday, I may also do the HPT on Monday. Iโ€™m so scared cos Hubby and I decided this will be our last try, the cost and emotional draining experience is just soo hard. I wish everyone on 2WW the best of luck!

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Betty08x in reply to Creamie

Ah best of luck to you! Really hoping the FET is the game changer for us ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ I feel good that at least we have tried something new. Itโ€™s such a hard process for so many reasons and really hope this time is your time ๐Ÿคž๐ŸผMy OTD is Monday but may test tomorrow if I can build up the courage ๐Ÿ˜… xx

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Hope4_22

Hello ladies , I am on the same boat . Today I am 6dp5dt. No symptoms so far at all.

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Betty08x in reply to Hope4_22

Hi lovely hope you are getting on okay. Have you got much planned over the weekend to keep busy? Canโ€™t say Iโ€™ve had many more symptoms as yet, just a couple more days to go ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜… wishing you loads of luck!xx

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Harley1977

Today 7dp4dt โ€” hanging in ! Lots of yummy cramps โ€” by test date is meant to be in 5 days ( on day 13 post 4dt) ! Best of luck to u all !

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Harley1977 in reply to Harley1977

Tummy cramps !! Nothing yummy about them !!!!

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Harley1977

Did few hrs ago was o like then a few hrs later saw this

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Harley1977

Was clear then in a few hrs saw this

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Betty08x in reply to Harley1977

Hi Harley, Hope you are okay. I think the result it only valid for a short window after the test so a few hours after may not be a true result. Iโ€™d say 7dp4dt is still early and if you can manage try and wait a couple more days to give your HCG levels a good chance to increase. The waiting is so hard but you can do this ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ Xxx

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Harley1977

Thanks Betty !!!๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜€

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Creamie in reply to Harley1977

Yeah I agree with Betty. I think you need to wait a little longer. You came this far, just a couple more days for all of us! All the best ๐Ÿ™

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