FET done ✅ never gets any easier 😅

[Betty08x]

This is my 1st FET but 4th transfer and 1st time we have PGS tested. Currently home alone as hubby is best man at a wedding today of all days 😂 I told him to get himself there, so here I am talking to people who get this whole thing. Also fun story he broke his toe yesterday so is currently sporting a moon boot with his suit 🤣

Previously we’ve transferred 5AA’s with no success other than a chemical. This embryo is 3bc, the doc said it was good quality and it’s thawed well but that awful little voice in your head can’t help but make you feel scared about the grade 🤦🏽‍♀️

Praying for this little embryo 🙏🏼🤞🏼

[ClaireB24]

Wishing you loads of luck Betty! Hope the 2WW goes quickly xx

[Betty08x in reply to ClaireB24]

Thank you Claire 😁😘 xxx

[Littlepeax]

Amazing huge good luck to you ❤️🥰

[Betty08x in reply to Littlepeax]

Appreciate it thank you! 🥰🙏🏼 Xxx

[Rfletcher]

I had my FET yesterday, it’s such a stressful time isn’t it.

I am equally worrying about embryo quality as ours didn’t thaw properly. We lost a cell in the process. However before it went back in it had started to divide and multiply again. They reassured us that all was ok but I can’t help feeling it is of low quality and won’t survive.

The best of luck to you xxx

[Betty08x in reply to Rfletcher]

Yes there’s so many hurdles to get through it’s so hard. But thats great news it had started to multiply again! just got to keep reminding yourself of that.

I always think it’s so crazy we know all these specifics about embryos/cells/grades before we even get to the pregnancy stage it’s no wonder it’s overwhelming 😅 I keep reminding myself we have done good to get to this stage and there’s nothing more we can do now.

Sending loads of luck your way too and here’s hoping we have a good update in a couple weeks! Xxx

[Rfletcher in reply to Betty08x]

And you, sending you lots of luck xxx

[Betty08x in reply to Rfletcher]

I meant to add - I’ve seen lots of posts stating that if its good enough to freeze and be transferred it’s good enough to make a baby, always find that reassuring too 🙏🏼 Xxx

[MAPB in reply to Betty08x]

That is a very good point x

[MAPB in reply to Rfletcher]

Thriving in slightly less than ideal starting conditions just shows how resilient the little jelly bean is! 💪🏻

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Thinking of you -sending lots of good luck wishes Keep yourself occupied during your 2WW- read a good book - watch a whole boxset on TV - go for long walks now weather getting better Rest when you can - eat a healthy diet and drink plenty of fluids Take care

Janet

[Betty08x in reply to JA-fnuk]

Thanks for your lovely words, have some nice things planned to hopefully help pass the time 🙏🏼❤️ Xx

[RedFox23]

Best of luck for your little embryo! Hoping the two week wait goes quickly for you and you get a BFP at the end of it! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 Xxx

[Betty08x in reply to RedFox23]

Thank you! got a little smile on my face reading these well wishes ☺️❤️ Xx

[Hoop123]

Wishing you lots and lots of luck! Our 3BB and 4CB have stuck so far (after better quality failed) so I've got my fingers crossed for you. Xx

[Betty08x in reply to Hoop123]

Thanks so much this is lovely to read! 🥰🥰🥰

[SK73]

Good luck🤞🤞🤞 moon boot and suit😂🤣😂🤣

[Betty08x in reply to SK73]

Thank you and yes 🤣 it’s been an eventful week can’t wait to see the wedding pics 😂xx

[KiboXX]

My fourth transfer was also my first FET and first time we had PGS tested. That little embryo is now my 18 month old daughter. I know it’s hard to keep a positive mindset but there is every chance this one will be your little miracle too. Good luck!♥️

[Betty08x in reply to KiboXX]

Thanks so much for this it’s actually brought a tear to my eye 😅🥰 xxx

[MAPB in reply to KiboXX]

It’s really great of you to still be coming on here when you’ve been successful and giving the rest of us hope x

[AuroraXen]

Hoping 4th time is the charm Betty! 🙏 Enjoy being PUPO lovely xx

[Betty08x in reply to AuroraXen]

Thank you I need to remind myself of being PUPO - liking this thought ☺️ Xxx

[AuroraXen in reply to Betty08x]

It's such a special time. I actually love the 2ww (as long as I don't start bleeding early 😣) as it's a time of such hope. We've actually made it, we have a living embryo inside us! It's so precious xx

[Betty08x in reply to AuroraXen]

I see you’re in the 2ww club too! Hope you are doing good, I’ve actually been thinking about what you said and managed to feel quite happy the last couple of days although I do then have strikes of pure fear when I think about test day 😅 oh the joys! Hope you have a lovely Easter and wishing you loads of luck!!xxx