This is my 1st FET but 4th transfer and 1st time we have PGS tested. Currently home alone as hubby is best man at a wedding today of all days ๐ I told him to get himself there, so here I am talking to people who get this whole thing. Also fun story he broke his toe yesterday so is currently sporting a moon boot with his suit ๐คฃ
Previously weโve transferred 5AAโs with no success other than a chemical. This embryo is 3bc, the doc said it was good quality and itโs thawed well but that awful little voice in your head canโt help but make you feel scared about the grade ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Praying for this little embryo ๐๐ผ๐ค๐ผ
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I had my FET yesterday, itโs such a stressful time isnโt it.
I am equally worrying about embryo quality as ours didnโt thaw properly. We lost a cell in the process. However before it went back in it had started to divide and multiply again. They reassured us that all was ok but I canโt help feeling it is of low quality and wonโt survive.
Yes thereโs so many hurdles to get through itโs so hard. But thats great news it had started to multiply again! just got to keep reminding yourself of that.
I always think itโs so crazy we know all these specifics about embryos/cells/grades before we even get to the pregnancy stage itโs no wonder itโs overwhelming ๐ I keep reminding myself we have done good to get to this stage and thereโs nothing more we can do now.
Sending loads of luck your way too and hereโs hoping we have a good update in a couple weeks! Xxx
I meant to add - Iโve seen lots of posts stating that if its good enough to freeze and be transferred itโs good enough to make a baby, always find that reassuring too ๐๐ผ Xxx
Thinking of you -sending lots of good luck wishes Keep yourself occupied during your 2WW- read a good book - watch a whole boxset on TV - go for long walks now weather getting better Rest when you can - eat a healthy diet and drink plenty of fluids Take care
Best of luck for your little embryo! Hoping the two week wait goes quickly for you and you get a BFP at the end of it! ๐ค๐ป๐ค๐ป๐ค๐ป๐ค๐ป Xxx
My fourth transfer was also my first FET and first time we had PGS tested. That little embryo is now my 18 month old daughter. I know itโs hard to keep a positive mindset but there is every chance this one will be your little miracle too. Good luck!โฅ๏ธ
It's such a special time. I actually love the 2ww (as long as I don't start bleeding early ๐ฃ) as it's a time of such hope. We've actually made it, we have a living embryo inside us! It's so precious xx
I see youโre in the 2ww club too! Hope you are doing good, Iโve actually been thinking about what you said and managed to feel quite happy the last couple of days although I do then have strikes of pure fear when I think about test day ๐ oh the joys! Hope you have a lovely Easter and wishing you loads of luck!!xxx
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