4th failed ivf

[Nicole18smith]

Hi so today we had some devastating news we were due to have our fet today but as we were leaving we were told our embryo didn’t survive the thawing and that was our only transfer this was our 4th round I could use some success stories right about now as feeling totally defeated we are looking at starting our 5th and final and success of a 5th cycle

[Catlady12345]

Hey. I’m so sorry, this journey is so hard. I haven’t had a success story yet, but wanted to reach out as I’m just about to start my second cycle (we had 4 embryos from the first round) 5th transfer!

I’m trying to keep the faith and just believing that each new go is a new opportunity to get our family.

Just wanted to say take some time for you, and try and look forward as much as you can. Xx

[Nicole18smith in reply to Catlady12345]

I know it’s such a hard journey I wish u all the luck for your second cycle ❤️😘xx

[slupton]

Hi I've just had my BFP on my fifth and last ever transfer! There is hope I promise. Take some time to relax and get yourself strong and ready for the next round. I've been there so many times and after my miscarriage I thought I'd never get out of bed again but you find the strength inside you and move forward. Sending all the luck and love and big hugs your way ❤😘 xxxx

[Nicole18smith]

Awww wow that’s given me some hope can I ask how long you waited till your next treatment ❤️ And congrats on ur BfP xxx

[slupton in reply to Nicole18smith]

Hi sorry only just read your message! Well cus of covid I waited nearly a year but be different now I'm sure xxx

[LiveandLetLive42]

I'm so sorry. This is such a painful process. We are on our third round. We have FET in a week or so. I'm really nervous. It's scary! This whole thing is just up and down. I'm really sorry though. I'm here if you need to talk <3

[Nicole18smith]

Thank you ❤️ It’s such a hard journey hope everything goes well for u fingers crossed 🤞 xx

[Pear1982]

Hi, I can't really offer any success stories but I wanted to say that the exact same thing happened to us so I know how hard it is. We were due to have a FET of our only ever frozen embryo on our fourth round and like you we got the call to say it hadn't survived the thaw. We were absolutely devestated especially as we'd waited so long to do the transfer as I'd had a laproscopy, an ERA, we'd had the embryo PGT-A tested etc all in preparation for a transfer that didn't happen. If you need to let yourself grieve for this loss. To me it was more painful than my other failed rounds as we hadn't even given the embryo a chance. We've since done a fifth round which sadly didn't work and we had nothing to freeze and we're now contemplating next steps. I'm wishing you lots of luck for whatever you do next. This journey is so, so hard xx

[Nicole18smith]

Oh bless ur heart ♥️ this is such a hard journey I wish all the luck in the world with what Eva u decided next 😘

[May37]

I'm so sorry how devastating, I have seen people on her go up to their tenth time, but it's what each of us can manage emotionally, financially. I had success on my 3rd round, 1st was a chemical pregnancy, 2nd I just knew it hadn't worked and third it as my last embryo so I had no expectations and took the pressure off myself, lots of people told me not to go back, but I went and now have a little girl almost 1,best of luck and take care of yourselves

[Nicole18smith]

Aww that’s amazing congrats on your little girl 😘 my 1st cycle was chemical 2nd we got a BfP but miscarried at 10 weeks our 3rd I just knew hadn’t taken but this one I just feel gutted we had only 1 embryo from this cycle and we had grade 1 8cell day 3 we had such high hopes we had to freeze as I nearly went into ohss I just feel like our little embryo never even had a chance I just hope our 5th brings us the luck we deserve the luck we all deserve 🤞🙏xx