1st FET Failed 💔

[Blue4summer]

I was living in my own happy bubble so far. When we started this journey due to male infertility factor, I was under impression it's just a matter of one cycle and we are done. Yesterday was my OTD and it was BFN💔. The embryo we transferred was 4AB. Best of them all in the dish ofcourse and not in my body may be. I had all those internet symptoms which I beleive it was just my mind satisfying myself. Any success stories here after failed cycle of best quality embryo?

[Givemesunshine1]

Hi Blue4summer It’s our otd today and bfn.

It’s soul crushing.

We’ve got unexplained sub fertility- all results negative so we were led to believe ivf would do it for us. We’ve been pregnant naturally twice but both died in my womb.

We’ve got another frozen blastocyst- have you got anymore?

So sorry- sending hugs

[Blue4summer in reply to Givemesunshine1]

Hi Givemesunshine1 , I can totally understand how you are feeling now. I was reading through your profile and see you have had losses in the past too. Yeah, I know how frustrating it is. We do have another blastocyst 6BB...But I don't think these grading make any sense. Sending lots of love to you and good luck next time.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Blue4summer. So sorry to hear this, and I hope you've got plenty of support just now. Look after you and hopefully you can try again soon. Thinking of you. Diane

[AuroraXen]

Really sorry to read your message. We had a 4AB transfered recently, also had a BFN last week 😔 It hurts so much, living in that happy bubble for 2 weeks, daring to hope, thinking of the little embryo setting up home! Then nothing. No words can lessen the disappointment but I'm sending you lots of love xx

[JoyfulStar]

Hi there, so sorry to hear about your outcome. IVF can really mess up with you emotionally. Like you, my first outcome was BFN despite it being male factor fertility.

I would say not to give up especially if you have other embryos. It is amazing to hear that lower graded embryos are the ones that stick. I will be rooting for you 🙏🏾