8dp5dt no symptoms. Please someone help me stay sane 😭

[Flower14]

So I’m 8dp5dt. I transferred 2 4bb’s. I don’t have any symptoms. On day 4 I was seriously emotional, day 5 lower back ache for a short while & day 7 very mild AF cramping (which I know can be the progesterone pessaries). These were my last two embryos! It’s such an agonising wait, but I just don’t feel anything! My boobs are not sore at all, no bloated ness, nothing! Can I still be in for a shot 🤞😭

[Millbanks]

You can indeed!! Some people get absolutely no symptoms at all during the 2 week wait. It’s completely different for each person and there is no reason why it hasn’t worked. Keep your chin up and take some deep breaths. You’ve got this xx

[Flower14 in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you lovely. Its such an agonising wait it really is especially when this is your 4th go and you're only used to bloody bad news lol. Xxxx

[Millbanks in reply to Flower14]

Oh love, I hear you.... I've been through it many times. If it helps, I've had completely different experiences through all my FETs and they've all been BFN - my point being that you cannot rely on symptoms at all. They trick you at every turn! I've got everything crossed for you xxx

[LuxFleur]

Hi there lovely, I am also 8dp5dt. One top embryo as my doctor says I am a twin risk. Any of the "symptoms" we're having now are just from the pessaries. My first FET I had all those symptoms and especially with the lower back pain was CONVINCED it would be BFP. But nothing, it was BFN. Less than 2 hcg. But then for my next FET I didn't really have any symptoms at all and I got BFP. We lost her at the end of the first trimester due to a trisomy, but the pregnancy itself was strong with over 500 HCG on the first test. So yes, your symptoms or lack thereof don't mean anything Xx

[Flower14 in reply to LuxFleur]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I really hope you get your positive, I will be thinking of you, please keep me posted. xxxxxx

[LuxFleur in reply to Flower14]

Thank you so much Xxx

[Mai94]

I’m also 8dp5dt, it’s impossible to tell. I have had one natural pregnancy, and one ivf natural FET resulting in pregnancy and with both I thought I was coming on my period, unfortunately both needed in miscarriage.

I’m getting back ache now and have had a few cramps, on and off sore boobs but nothing crazy and these are things I have gotten in pregnancies and before my period! It’s a minefield just try and keep busy but relaxed at the same time. So the symptoms you have had could be either from the progesterone you’re taking or from a pregnancy Is what I’m trying to say, I’ve read about so many ladies who have had no symptoms at all and gone on to get BFPs.

When is your OTD? Good luck 🤞🏽

[Flower14 in reply to Mai94]

Thank you for your response. It's crazy as I really do know all of this, it's almost like you're just searching for someone to tell you you're pregnant aren't you lol. I turn into such a crazy person during this TWW i'm surprised my Fiancé hasn't had me sectioned lol. My test date is monday 28th. What about you? Keeping all i have crossed for you xxxx

[Mai94 in reply to Flower14]

My gosh I know exactly what you mean. I Google/search on here the exact same things over and over again as though somethings going to pop out and confirm it for me 🙈 so I’ve been given Saturday 26th at 11dp. We’re going to test Friday just because we’re going away Saturday morning with family so will hope we get a positive then and if not will try Saturday too!

Thank you, keeping crossed for you too! Keep us posted xx

[JudithSS]

Good morning flower,

I had every single symptom for the first 5 days, then I had awful period cramps in my belly and back. I lost the plot on Sunday night (8dp3dt) and on Monday I was a wreck. I started spotting on Monday so I thought F- it I’ll do a test (mid afternoon) and it came back positive with a very faint line. I’ve been testing every morning since abs have a faint line. Saying that my boobs aren’t sore but my god do I have period cramps in my belly and back. I guess what I’m saying is I’ve felt the exact same as you this week and came out with a positive test. Will it stick is another question and is my period coming, all you can do is take one day at a time xx

[Flower14 in reply to JudithSS]

Amazing. Congratulations on your positive that is amazing news!!!! 4More days until I can test! I took HCG trigger (last shot was yesterday) so I can’t test early. 😩xxxxxx

[leo1980]

Yes!!! Soldier on. Lack of symptoms means nothing.. it’s not over until the fat lady sings.. and I am not singing!! Best of luck 😉

[Flower14 in reply to leo1980]

Thank you so much 😊 xxxxx

[N-A-58]

6dp5dt here and absolutely no symptoms!! Going crazy too. Its so hard mentally but hang on in there, it’s not too long now.

I did 3 HCG triggers around transfer so I can’t test too early as it could be a false positive. My OTD is Sunday 27th!

[Flower14 in reply to N-A-58]

Good luck with your OTD. I have everything crossed for you!!! It’s such a agonising wait. Every morning I wake up wanting sore boobs so I atleast feel something, but nope still feel normal 😂. Xxxxx

[AAmiracle]

This tww is so hard to deal with!! I’m with you! I’m at 8dpt also and I’ve had a few symptoms like a bit of cramping, headaches but I got a negative this morning. I shouldn’t have tested but I caved in. My blood test is on Monday. Will stay hopeful until then. Good luck to you!

[Flower14 in reply to AAmiracle]

Hey, you still have 4 more days to go. ALOT can change so still alot to be hopeful for I have taken a HCG trigger so I can not take test as it will potentially give me a false positive. My BETA is monday too. Good luck lovely xxxx

[AAmiracle in reply to Flower14]

Thanks so much for the encouragement!! You’re right!!! I wish you the best of luck on Monday 💕💕

[Sunflower24]

I didn’t have any symptoms at all during my 2ww, I’m currently 12 weeks today. I know the feeling though if just wanting to know that it worked, say a prayer (if you pray) meditate or just try to focus on anything else…..easier said than done I’m sure. Baby dust to you ❤️

[Purple276]

Hi flower,Just wanted to say I know exactly how you feel. I'm 8dp today and have no signs at all. This is also my 4th and final transfer so literally all my hopes are on this one lil embryo. It's a ridiculously stressful time so making it to 8 day is a massive achievement and all you can do is fill the remaining days with as much distraction and things that you like. I went to the cinema last night, swimming tonight anything to stop me googling and hope the next few days whizz by. Sending you loads of positive thoughts and luck for Monday. My OTD is Tues 🤞