I am having my "WTF" meeting with my FS. What questions should I ask?

[Belangalo]

I called for an appointment and was initially told 26 March...which felt like a long way away so I hinted I may have to go to another specialist and BAM! I get an appointment this Thursday. Lucky me! But it doesn't build a lot of confidence in my clinic if they only try when I threaten to leave! 🤣

I have 1 fresh transfer that resulted in a chemical, I cancelled transfer (due to the clinic being closed on Transfer day) and two negative frozen transfers under my belt at this point. I am now 38 and I want to be a mommy! I'm so so tired of negative tests and I would like answers. Please ladies, you are my brains trust. What questions should I be asking? What tests should I be getting or at least asking about?

I want to get the most out of this appointment and find some confidence in moving forward with IVF for a second cycle. I'm gutted that it isn't working. I'm gutted that it happens so easily for some people on their first cycle but happy for them too because I know how much they have likely already been through to get there...I just so wish to join the ranks of success stories. So lay it on me ladies please...what do I need to ask or do? I feel so ignorant of the process and what's happening or should be happening. Please help.