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I am currently 9dp5dt FET. My first one since a successful FET 4 years ago which resulted in my beautiful little boy. Getting so nervous about testing on weds. Instead of wanted to do it earlier I want more days. I have been symptom spotting since day 2 and nothing much to report a few twinges here and there no spotting which could be bad, could be good who knows....I thought I would feel something and know either way because I’ve been through it before but no it’s just as confusing and nerve wracking this time round. Just wanted to say I hope everyone else is doing ok in the 2WW and fingers crossed I manage to work up the guts to do the test Wednesday. I just keep thinking it’s going to be negative and then it’s all over. At the moment I can still hope 🤞🏻❤️

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Beatrix_K

I’m right there with you Bluebelle1 ! I am 12dp5dt and it feels like forever. I want Weds (OTD) to hurry up and be here already but at the same time not as I’m scared it could all be over. Hopefully we can get past this with some positive news 🤞 🍀

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Beatrix_K

Fingers crossed for you too 🤞🏻 I’m dreading it tomorrow morning! x

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Beatrix_K in reply to Bluebelle1

Good luck today. Whatever happens we’ve got this xx

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Chicky86

Good luck!!

My OTD is the 23rd. First FET. Had a fresh in December. I know it's early days, but I already feel like I'm going out of mind symptom spotting, of which there's not been much.

Wishing all the best for Wednesday xx

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Chicky86

Thank you! Wishing you luck for the 23rd. x

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Jess1981

I just wanted to wish you the very best of luck for tomorrow I hope it's a bfp 😍 Xx

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Jess1981

Thank you 😊 x

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McQueeny

Aww, going to be there soon too! We’re starting a FET over the next couple of weeks, also have a gorgeous little boy from a fresh cycle a couple of years ago.....I can imagine the nerves being just as bad! we only have one frozen embryo so while I can’t wait to get started I’m also so nervous, as if it doesn’t work it will be the big heartache and discussion about trying fresh again 😬🤞

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Bluebelle1 in reply to McQueeny

Oh the added pressure of it being your last frozen embryo makes it all that harder. Wishing you lots of luck 🤞🏻 x

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McQueeny in reply to Bluebelle1

Thank you!! The best of luck to you too, all fingers crossed 🤞 x

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Angels2us

Hi bluebelle , well I had my FET on feb 8 last Monday I don’t normally test until the 2ww but I might test tomorrow so scared as this is are last go , it’s no 7 for us , one day I think I am pregnant, then the next I think I am not, it’s torture for sure sending you lots and lots of baby dust xxxx

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Angels2us

Wow number 7. Wishing you so much luck that this will be the one 🤞🏻 Xxx

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Angels2us in reply to Bluebelle1

Yes fingers crossed going to test tomorrow because it will still only be day 9 so we see I probably won’t get a line this early xxx

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Core

Good luck for Wednesday, my OTD is Friday and it’s so horrible this wait xx

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LT31 in reply to Core

mine is Friday (19th) too!

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Core in reply to LT31

Good luck, how are you feeling?xx

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LT31 in reply to Core

Thank you! You too! Can't believe I still have 2 more days to wait!!!It's going so slowly! I've had sore boobs for a week, but I normally do before a period, so it's hard to tell what's going on. I've had cramps/ twinges but no spotting, so just really confused and overly analysing everything! Hope you are feeling ok Core and Bluebelle1

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Core in reply to LT31

It’s so horrible this symptom spotting! I’ve had spotting on and off from day 3 on pretty sure I’m out 🙁 xx

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LT31 in reply to Core

I don't know, spotting is meant to be a good thing- showing implantation happened, so don't lose hope!

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Core in reply to LT31

I hope so I just think it’s gone on for too long and I always spot before my period. I guess I’ll find out in 2 days xx

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Core

Thank you good luck to you too x

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Fertilityjourney

Good luck for tomorrow. The 2ww is torture but I really hope it"s positive news for you. Xx

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Fertilityjourney

Thank you so much x

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HemBella

Keeping everything crossed for a BFP tomorrow!! I'm 5dp5dt. OTD is only next Wednesday but it's so hard not to think about!

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Bluebelle1 in reply to HemBella

Thank you. Fingers crossed for you too x

Thinking of you lovely.

I’m 9dp5dt and OTD is Thursday.

I’ve had no symptoms and even got my usual monthly headache so I’m so so so so so scared.

I’ve been pregnant once before but it was ectopic so I’m not sure what my body expects.

Good luck xx

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Bluebelle1 in reply to TTCWithCHSweetheart

Thank you. Wishing you so much luck for Thursday. x

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LuxFleur

Hello love, I can totally relate to you not wanting to test!! When my OTD rolled around and I was supposed to go get a beta test, I actually couldn't make myself do it. Couldn't POAS either. I finally made myself go for the beta in the afternoon of the following day for no other reason than it was a medicated cycle and I had to know either way so I could continue or stop the nightly progesterone injections. I was 100% convinced it was negative. Thankfully it was BFP. All the luck and good wishes to you!!

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Bluebelle1 in reply to LuxFleur

Amazing! Congratulations. I was the same when I got my positive test a few years ago I was certain it was going to be negative. This time I just don’t know either way! x

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Hope_1234

Best of luck 🤞

My OTD is Sat 20th (I was tempted to test before but decided against it.. I'm to scared☹️)

This is my last frozen embryo before starting again from scratch

I have my fingers crossed for you.. the TWW is so hard x

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Hope_1234

Thank you so much. Lots of luck to you too for Saturday x

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LT31 in reply to Hope_1234

good luck!

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Patches86

Good luck! My OTD is tomorrow too and I’m freaking out! I got period type cramps around 6dp5dt, same as I did on my previous two BFNs so I’m already thinking I must be out but trying to hold onto the little hope I have, same as you. I’ll be crossing fingers for us for tomorrow x

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Patches86

Thank you so much. I’ll be crossing my fingers for you too. x

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Angels2us

Good luck for tomorrow let us know how you get on , is tomorrow day 14 for you xxx

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Bluebelle1 in reply to Angels2us

Thank you so much. Will be day 11 for me. xx

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Ma717

Wishes you best of luck im also thinking of trying a number #2 had successful fresh cycle which is a very grateful (have un amazing son) its feel like anxiety all over again starting Fet, i hope good news for OTD .

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Bluebelle1

Hello all I did the test this morning and it was positive. I honestly can’t believe it! I was so sure it would be negative I booked today off work. So happy right now but trying to keep myself grounded. Very early days. Xxx

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HemBella in reply to Bluebelle1

Amazing!! So happy for you. Massive congratulations xxx

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McQueeny in reply to Bluebelle1

Amazing, so many congratulations! 🙌

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Ma717

Uhhh great so happy for youuuu

Congratulations 🎉 fabulous news xx

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Chicky86

Amazing! Congratulations xx

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