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Nervous about the scan tomorrow

So I've got the scan tomorrow at the epu and I'm literally petrified. I've still been having pregnancy symptoms but the on and off bleeding is driving me a little crazy. I've not bled for a few days and now I've had a bit of bleeding-I just don't know what's going on but I'm sure tomorrow will give us answers. I'm so scared for the outcome. My best friend also sent me a picture of her 20 week scan saying how well everything's going with hers. Could honestly just sob!! I'm so down about it all and don't know how I will cope if it's game over again-sorry for the self pity xxx

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I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

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Thank you xx

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Don't be sorry we are all here for you. Will be thinking of you tomorrow and praying for a positive outcome xxx

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Wish you all the good luck in the world xx

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Thanks so much-honestly don't know what I would do without you all XX

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I know how you feel sweetheart. I'm also feeling a bit negative, I think it's just a defence mechanism after you've had your heart broken so many times and such a rough road to get this far. I'm still having a bleed here and there too and the clinic can only say 'oh it may be normal'. Frustrating isn't it? My EPU is Friday (the 13th!! :() But it's only like 9 week one just to see if our twins are ok. I've got everything crossed for you and hoping you have some lovely news xxxx

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Really hope it goes well for you too hun. I should be 9 weeks 3 days today so totally understand it's such early days in regards to the actual pregnancy but we've been going through the whole process for so long. I feel so totally awful and so helpless-you kind of just plod along and cause no one knows apart from me and my husband then you have to be happy around everyone else-really difficult. Xx

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Thinking of of you for tomorrow, sending lots of luck 🍀🍀 xx

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Wishing you lots of luck for your scan cx

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I have everything crossed for you xx

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I know how this feels, thinking of you sweetie 💞 xx

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Good luck huni, everything crossed for you and your little baby xx

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I've just got back from the scan and all looks good!! Honestly can't quite believe it and I'm nervous to say things look good-sounds silly I know! They think I have something on my cervix which is creating the bleeding think she called it cervix erosion and can come from the hormone change. There is nothing that has been picked up around Baby and all looks to be developing as it should-my fibroids are not causing any problems at the moment. The nurse was so incredibly lovely and looked at my cervix to check it was what she thought and she said as long as the bleeding isn't heavy and no pain she thinks it's to do with that and that I may well have some bleeding throughout as a result of this-it will keep me on my toes!! My next scan is 30th Jan so fingers crossed for that one. Thank you so much ladies for your messages you are really keeping me sane xxxx

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Fantastic news, I can't tell you how pleased I am for you. Now rest up and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy xxx

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Aww lovely so happy for you xxx

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Hope your okay , and all goes ok xxx

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Good luck you'll be in my thoughts x

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Fantastic news yllek1982 absolutely over the moon for you lovely.xxx

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Thank you so much! I just can't quite believe it xx

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