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Anyone else just feel fed up?

I’m currently 8dp3dt, all niggles and twinges have stopped! I’m still 6 days from official test day, I don’t feel pregnant but I feel fed up!

I cant seem to shake this mood off and I can’t seem to find any positivity with in me!

Maybe it’s lockdown, maybe it’s just not knowing, maybe it’s just the meds!?!

Would love to hear from others this morning xxx

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almostfamous

Fed up is exactly how I'd describe myself today. Fed up of the whole ivf process, fed up of lockdown, fed up of rubbish weather. Apparently today is officially 'blue Monday' and I can see why lol! The wait for test day is the worst, but only 6 more days to go, you got this! Sending you lots of luck. x

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SianieShorts

I’m the same...spent half the night googling symptoms or no symptoms!. Thought my boobs were a bit bigger, or is that just my bra??? 🤪 otherwise no twinges.You are more than half way now...you got this! X

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Pigi

The same.

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Francezc

Me too lovely, I'm 5dpt4td and cried all day on day 3 because I convinced myself it had failed again as I have no symptoms 😣 but then I remind myself that it could absolutely work as well. I have everything crossed for you lots of baby dust. Xxx

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Millbanks

Aww - I have had 4 transfers and I always feel negative and jittery around day 7 / 8. Every single time. I think the excitement has worn off, and you're now starting to worry. Try and take a breath and give yourself a little pep talk. I always go through the options for next steps if this one doesn't work. That gives me back a little bit of control and takes away a TINY bit of the anxiety. Fingers crossed for a good outcome for you xx

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hifer

Oh hun you’re fed up because the 2ww is the worst place to be in the history of the World so it’s completely understandable. Add that to a global pandemic and it’s a pretty ripe recipe to feel pretty fed up! All the reasons you’ve mentioned are pretty valid by themselves!! Hang in there ONLY six days to go and at least one of those things will be relieved. Keeping everything crossed for you xx

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Emrevic

Feeling exact same ...ive got 7 days til test day...my 'symptoms' have disappeared so been googling too...even though I know the progesterone and ostreogen I'm on now more than likely were causing any symptoms this early anyway!

Not nice to think of anyone else feeling the same but also nice to know not the only one in the same boat so to speak

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Jam-master

Same!! The 2ww is the worst part of this whole process I feel!! At least with scans and stuff you feel like your doing something, this is just waiting with nothing to do really!! I’m tempted to test early tomorrow just to put myself out of my misery but I don’t know!

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CYM1978

When are you due to test? I’ve not even got a pregnancy test kit yet as I don’t want to tempt fate. I’m going to get one the day before I’m due to test to stop me doing it early. Plus I test on Sunday, I don’t want to ruin my whole weekend if it’s bad news!!

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Jam-master in reply to CYM1978

I’m due to test on Wednesday so it would just be one day early. I’ve never tested early before, don’t know why I’m more tempted to do it this time, just fed up waiting

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CYM1978

I can understand that. If you do let us know how it goes. Best of luck lovely 🤞🏼🙏🏼 Xxx

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Sarayou

Hi, like I’ve read here the 2WW seem to be the worse , hang in there, I am also 8dpo (had 3 rounds of clomid & pregnyl injections and I am a mess). I have been 1st constipated for 4 days (sorry for the details), then been having full on diarrhoea since 3 days, as of today I can’t stand smells, I am also fed up. I am at the stage where I am having symptoms but trying to convince myself “Shush, this is in your head” just to avoid the deception. All this to say, it’s OK to be fed up, we feel you, hang in there 😘

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CYM1978 in reply to Sarayou

Thank you!!!! Sorry you’ve not had a great time, fingers crossed it’s for good reason for you!

I’m feeling a tad better this morning, now I can count down the days to test day on one hand.

You’re right this is the hardest part, just waiting and not knowing 😖 xxx

Good luck with your journey xxx

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