CRGH vs Zita West vs Evewell 40 years old high AMH

[Dojiejo]

I am currently trying (and have been for the past 3 years) for a sibling for our son who was convinced through DIUI 5 years ago. We went back to the clinic we convinced our son as we still had donor sperm there, fast forward 3 years and we have had x4 DIUI and x2 FET (and x2 cancel FET due to issues with fluid in my uterus), the first I got a positive urine pregnancy test prior to my official test day and then negative bloods on my official test day. Our most recent FET has recently end in a miscarriage.

We only have one vial of sperm left and our donor has retired, I am 40 turning 41 in January with a high AMH. If our next cycle doesn't work it will most likely be the end of our journey for us, clearly we have been extremely fortunate in being able to have our son initially, just feeling extremely dishearten and upset by the whole process.

My acupuncturist believe I might have some immune issues (I have been seeing her since we started our treatment journey with our son 7 years ago. I also think I have issues with my uterus as I had a csection with my son and my scar at my uterus is extremely thin and I potentially have a niche. I feel like our currently clinic are now just blaming age and the need for fertility treatment being that we are a same sex couple rather than looking at any other reasons for why we are struggling with getting pregnant.

I understand we are very fortunate that we have already had one successful pregnancy, I am just at a massively low point and finding the whole process difficult, frustrating and devastating.

We are in London so are lucky we have lots of options for potential clinics but think we have narrowed it down to CRGH, Zita West or Evewell. It is difficult to know which one to go to due to COVID and limited information evenings/access to the clinics.

Thank you in advance.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi. If anyone wants to reply to this post and needs to mention a clinic by name, please do so by private message. Thanks. Diane

[JenRoy]

I’ve messaged you

[Dojiejo in reply to JenRoy]

Thank you JenRoy, I really appreciate you message.