BFN could it change in a day or 2

[BluMonkey]

So today was our OTD, I had my FET on Wednesday 28th.

It was a big fat negative, rang the clinic and they said to try in two days. Is their even a point? Has it ever changed for anyone else?

I have been trying to conceive for such a long time, we had a MMC last summer and we have had two more attempts since as well as an ERA test. Don’t know what else to do. Feeling really lost and disheartened.

They cannot find anything wrong with neither my husband or me and it just feels like maybe it’s the universes way, of saying there must be something wrong with me. I started the IVF process at 36 after years of TTC, I am now 38. Is this the end of the road for me? I have no more embryos left so would have to start the process again.

Any advice from anyone that’s been in a similar situation before would be grateful appreciated.

[Beatrix_K]

Hey Blu,

I am sorry to read this, it effin’ sucks and my heart goes out to you.

I’ve never been in your position (i’ve never been pregnant) but just wanted to lend some support and say I hear you.

My clinic says to wait and test 14 days after blastocyst transfer - I don’t know if there’s a difference with FET but maybe they’re thinking that leaving it a few more days will yield a clearer result?

I know it’s going to be hard but try and hold on to something positive for a couple more days (I’m giving myself a pep talk too as I write this!). Big hugs to you. xxx

[BluMonkey in reply to Beatrix_K]

Thank you Beatrix,

This journey sucks as women I feel like we have to endure so much.

My message to you is to also be positive! Some days are suckier then others abs today is one of those days.

Today I am going to cry and feel crap, but tomorrow I’m going to pick myself up and think about all the positive stories out there which gives us hope and that we too will be one of those soon!

Big hugs to you too x

[Beatrix_K in reply to BluMonkey]

That’s a really good idea, I am going to do the same xx