Hi just a wanted to give you all an update ,I came on my period in the night and just thought I would do a test to check as that's what my clinic would say ,it's negative as I thought with bleeding ,so now it's the end for me I have give it all I can I now have to move on with my life I will probably leave this group as it's to much to read when you become obsessed with it ,good luck to you all and lots of fairy dust xxxx
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The end of the road!
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I've just posted similar....we just tested negative yesterday and it was our last go of ivf. I've been overwhelmed by the beautiful messages and hope I can do the same for you.
You are not alone. And you, possibly like me, might not feel very strong right now. The hardest thing is knowing when its right to stop and say enough is enough. Take comfort in that you gave it your all. And whatever your future holds I hope its filled with other enjoyment excitements and wonder. Wishing you all the very best ❤
So sorry to read this Shelly but also want to applaud you as this is such a tough decision and you are so strong to make it no matter how devastated you feel right now. As someone dealing with a similar but to weak to say enough is enough I really admire you. Sending you huge hugs during this difficult time but also wishing you a happy and healthy future xx
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Thankyou I went into this thinking if I have a chance there is no better chance than this,I cannot do no more than I have there is a time when you say you have give it your best and now I have to let it go ,I just didn't want to get to my 50s and think what if and that's why I had to try ,good luck with you and stay strong xx
So sorry to hear what's just happened Shelly. I'm lost for words but I want to send you a big virtual hug and hope you will remember all the times you have been through trials and come out the other side feeling better and stronger xx
You have done amazing. I guess you know when it's time to stop. You're right about life gets put on hold. This is a horrible journey. Now you can move forward. Good for you and best wishes to you and your partner. Xx