Miscarriage follow up

[MD123]

So despite another positive after my final FET, it ended badly like it did back in April. The doctor reckoned it would be more likely 'bad luck' than anything sinister going on with me but well, if I am going to fork out 6 grand for a fresh try then I think I will need to make sure nothing is amiss with me.

If I was to go to my GP and ask for follow up to check nothing is wrong, what sort of things should I be asking to be investigated?

Thanks in advance!

[Ivfgotadream]

I’m sorry you’ve had another loss

Unfortunately unless you’ve had 3 miscarriages in a row it’s unlikely a GP will refer you to a miscarriage clinic? Once you get a referral even before Covid the wait time to see the specialist for me was almost 5 months and I wasn’t prepared to put TTC on hold that long. Personally I found the tests they run pretty generic and you get much better testing from IVF clinics

[MD123 in reply to Ivfgotadream]

The clinic is very dismissive of any concern that it could be anything other than issues with the embryo. I'm just so scared that there could be something wrong with me and I'd be as well literally flushing 6 grand down the toilet (alongside all the hopes and dreams and 2.8k already spent this year) 😔

On the other hand, I think that maybe me or my embryos don't agree so much with the frozen process/being frozen and maybe fresh will be the answer... I don't know... 😫 xx