Ivf

[Ooela]

Hello lady I am now on day 14 after embryo transfer I have my period I never took a pregnancy test as I no am not pregnant it was my first ivf and I just need to know will I give it a rest for a year or try again soon will this keep happening to me .

[Hidden]

So sorry to read Ooela. I hope you have support in eachother. Do you have anything frozen?

Technically you dont need to wait for a year. Alot of ladies dont have the time to wait very long. If you want to work on certain things like diet or supplementation then you could take a few months in between and build your levels if deficient? But it would be a personal choice x

[Ooela in reply to Hidden]

My mother and father is very good there told me to do what best with me and there pay again dont give up hope but with my husband he up set with everone but me I dont no what to say to him with out us geting in to a argument I dont no how I feel as I still need time to get my head around it all I feel like just geting up and walking away from everone and everting I ever know and not comeing back but am just takeing it slow see how the next couple of days go with my husband

[Hidden in reply to Ooela]

Parents are a great support system and glad you have them there for you. I know what you mean re your husband. Some people deal with loss or grief differently. Some people cant really talk about it. My husband doesnt talk much and i cant stop talking about it. Give it a few days or weeks or how long you need and perhaps you can discuss next steps. As long as you both have the wish for a child it doesnt matter and you will find ways to move forward. 😘😘

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Ooela. Perhaps you need to speak about trying some low dose soluble aspirin or heparin to ensure that you have good blood circulation to your womb and the lining. It also helps to prevent any clotting too. Just my thoughts and I hope you've got plenty of support just now. Diane