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Hi everyone,

I did a transfer last week and i found out yesterday that it didn’t take. I’m feeling really sad and hopeless.

I have only 1 embryo left and I’m scared the end result may be the same. My lining isn’t optimal because of having Asherman’s Syndrome and having fibroid surgery. Extremely sad today.

I don’t know what to do to for my lining. Any suggestions will be appreciated.

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This made me so sad. Im so sorry. Just wanted to send love and hope someone can help with the questions xx

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Thank you for your kind words. It’s appreciated 🧡

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24hopefuls

Really sorry to hear this. Did they check your lining before they did the transfer? Anything over 7 is good apparently x

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Yes they did it was over 7 but apparently there still seems to be issues with it 😔

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24hopefuls in reply to Needhelp120

Oh no I'm sorry to hear that. There's lots they can do nowadays, ERA, eating certain things to help lining thicken, progesterone for a longer period of time. Don't be disheartened speak to the professionals x

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FluffyPink

I’m afraid I don’t have any advice about the lining as I have no experience of that but just wanted to say I am so sorry to hear that your transfer didn’t take.

This journey is unbelievably gruelling and lonely at times. I really hope you have happy news next time. xxx

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Thank you for your kind words. I hope so too🙏🏼🧡

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Ivf2020A

Im not very experienced in ivf so have no tips but i wanted to say im so sorry to hear what’s happened and for you to know your not alone and can always vent or pm me anytime x

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Needhelp120 in reply to Ivf2020A

It’s really hard but thank you so much for lending an ear if needed 🧡

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hannahkc

Sorry to hear lovely, I don't know about the condition but I hope you can get some advice from your clinic xx

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