I’m sorry to say that this morning at 6w 2d I started heavy bleeding, clotting and have severe cramps. It’s got progressively worse as the day has gone on. The EPAU couldn’t get me in today so I’ve spent the whole day experiencing what is very likely a miscarriage, and it’s just made it harder knowing I have to wait until tomorrow to see someone.
I’m devastated. Being a single donor mum to be I felt like the hard part of low AMH, creating eggs, treatment being postponed due to COVIF and the FET/2WW was done. I even had blood tests 2 weeks ago and my numbers looked great, so I finally felt like I was in the category with slightly better odds to carry a baby to full term. Sadly, it looks like it’s not to be.
I’ve never had a positive test before, I’m grateful for that but this just feels like the cruelest way to lose something so precious after over coming so much.
I know so many on here have experienced loss similar or of their own kind, I just feel very lost
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I’m so sorry for your lost... I can’t say I understand because I was not in your shoes, I did have a failed ivf, but is nothing compared with what you have to face now
I just can say that I’m so sorry and hope you will be alright xxx
I'm so, so sorry Lisa!! Its utterly heartbreaking.😥 I had a very similar experience with our first BFP. Here if you need a chat.😘 lots of love & hugs.xxx
Aw you poor thing - sending massive virtual hugs your way. I don’t quite know how you feel as have had 1 failed round and no pregnancy but I know the feeling of being lost. I hope you have some close family who will mind you for a little while and a friend with a bucket of wine. It will be okay. Xx
I'm so very sorry for your loss. The pain is both physically and even more so emotionally excruciating. After 3 transfers i finally got pregnant everything was looking and going great until I miscarried at 11 weeks 😥 please look after yourself the next few weeks are going to be tough. I hope you have a good support network around you. Sending massive hugs and love ❤ again I'm so very sorry 💔 xxx
I am so sorry to hear this. I experienced a chemical pregnancy before having my daughter & it was so heartbreaking. It was my hubby & mines first positive test 💔 Miscarriages are very cruel. I hope you have support as you will need plenty to come to terms with it. Thinking of you xxx
I’m so sorry but please don’t give up, at 5 weeks 5 days I had the same and it turned out to be a subchoronic hematoma. My doctor was honest and gave me a 50% chance of miscarriage but he survived and I’m currently 28 weeks pregnant. I wish you the best and hope the same for you!!
Im in the same position, im 6+3 My 5th embryo transfer, i had my daughter still born at 34weeks last year. I started bleeding monday for a few hours heavy with clots then it stopped ive had no more, i also had bleeding with my last and didnt miscarry, the same sort of bleed could be seen on my scan this time, i Had a scan wednesday nothing can be seen on the scan No gestation sac nothing, so i am now ‘a pregnacy with unknown location’ Basically means ive already miscarried, its too early to see or its ectopic. My bloods come back 1750 wednesday they are being repeated today to see if they have increased or declined then i will know whats going on. Xxx
Lisa - I’m so so sorry I understand how you feel completly we had a failed DE ivf and then one that worked but I miscarried , another one fail and at this point I thought we’ll donor eggs isn’t helping it’s not doing anything different than my own (not getting pregnant and not staying pregnant) is bad previous natural miscarriages as well , I had two embryos left and I wasn’t hopeful but I did it anyways and I got pregnant stayed pregnant and now have twin boys (16m) I bled with them at 5w2d and thought that’s it it’s over but it wasn’t and all was okay everything crossed for you.
As hard as it is to stay positive and believed that last transfer id already wrote myself off as if not working , it can happen and you can succeed just hang in there ❤️
I am so so sorry to hear this, I finally got a positive on my 5th attempt to lose it at 5 weeks and I know how heartbreaking it is. Sending you a big hug and hope you have lots of love around you message me if you need anything or just want someone to rant to xx
I’m so sorry that you are going through this. It’s just devastating and this process can be so cruel (we have been there too). Thinking of you ❤️ take care. We are here if you ever need support. Big hugs Xx
This is the saddest thing to read Lisa. Im so sorry. Please take care of yourself 💐
I’m so so sorry to read this 😢 My first IVF ended the same and I know nothing can help the pain you’re feeling right now. You will be ok, just take it one day at a time. Sending you a massive hug ❤️ xxx
I’m very sorry to hear about your sad news, Lisa. It is indeed a tough journey for us. I know the pain of losing something that you hold on dearly. The thought that if only I didn’t miscarry I must have a 3-year old daughter or son now. Today was meant to be my due date 3 years ago. But please keep the faith. Don’t give up. Cry if you may but don’t give up. Sending you lots of hugs xxx
Did you have an ultrasound to confirm? Two pregnancies now I’ve had massive bleeding and clotting, some clots the size of my hand, and somehow baby was fine. It’s always six weeks for me, too. I’ve also had losses and it is awful, I’m so sorry if that’s the case for you, but there is hope.
Thank you all so much for the support, I can’t tell you how much it’s meant. I had a scan First thing and the nurse said it shows something in the uterus that looks like a sack but that she can’t see anything in it as she would expect at this stage. So it’s a miscarriage and I had some blood tests to check my levels and progesterone which they’ll call me about tomorrow to rule out at ectopic.
I am struggling with processing it all, but thank you so much again to everyone on here, you’re a real blessing x
Hi... Me too happened in March 2019 after 8week scan started to bleed at 11 weeks.... It's was my first positive using fertility drug... And now 1st FET on June 9th 2020 after an year got positive n heartbeat at 7weeks but no heartbeat at 7week 5 days I mean just in 5 days at a followup appmt the baby is gone... It started to miscarry in womb during scan...there is no spotting nor bleeding waiting to miscarry naturally... It's very hard to wait thinking of using pills but m really scared as my husband is busy n can't be at home... Miscarring naturally Wil b less painful as it is last time... Having papaya, pineapple but still not working.... Letting body do its job... It can't conceive naturally on its own atleast hope it expels it on its own... Praying for it atleast.... I know how u r feeling but lot of women here are just like you.... Be positive... Workout hard after u finish mc it helps a lot... Gud luck...
I am so sorry to hear this, I had a miscarriage too and I can totally understand how heartbreaking it is. I know it feels lonely even if you have lots of people around who will try their best to support you.. none can fully understand. If you want to talk you can message me 💕
I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of love to you. Xx
So sorry dear.... It’s heartbreaking. I had experienced two missed miscarriages, so believe me when I’m telling you I know how you feel... look after yourself and I hope I’m time you feel better. Xx
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