11dpt5dt severe cramps and now spotting

[Conceivingblee]

Hi.

Just wondering if im now out. Ive still no other symptons and have been having severe deep cramps for 3 days now and today brown on the pessary holder when i removed it. ..

Still not tested so sad this second round my of failed. Im 42 in 2 weeks.. Not sure mentally i can go again or financially tbh. If only id met my husband 10yrs ago not 4 maybe things would of been easier.

OTD is tuesday.

[Nat246]

Hello, cramps are normal after transfer. They could be that it has worked so it’s implantation and then body relaxing as hcg starts to produce. So don’t rule yourself out yet! Good luck for test day xx

[Conceivingblee in reply to Nat246]

Thanks for your reply. Its getting heavier now and the pain is constant since getting up. Im not holding out much hope tbh. Thanks for your words of hope though xx

[Stato]

It is so hard. Try not to give up hope yet. Preparing for the worst doesn’t actually make the worst feel any better if it happens

We met when I was 36 and he was 41. Time is against us but I’m sure our time will come!

Sending positive vibes x

[Daughterofaking]

I'm so sorry to hear you are bleeding, scary I know but dont give up hang in there it might just be the good news you are seeking to hear. Update us. xx

[Conceivingblee in reply to Daughterofaking]

I did a test this morning its negative. 😭

[Daughterofaking]

Sorry you got a negative result. So devastating I know but just pick up courage and plan the way forward. That its negative this time doesnt mean it will be next time. May the Lord continue to strengthen you and grant your heart desires. Also try and check if there was anything you or the clinic did wrongly this time so it can be corrected next time. Wish you all the best in the future. Sending lot of hugs.