hi all I'm new here! Can I have some help pls

[Kewii]

Hey all I'm a mum to a 2 year old and a 5 month old before my babies I had 5 miscarriages and 1 misscariag between my daughter and son and I am now 7 weeks pregnant today I started bleeding day for yesterday it was a pinkish colour and just when I wiped I got sent for an early scan yesterday showed baby was fine and the heart beat was doing what its supose to and there was next to the baby a massive bleed that still needed to come out well after the scan it turned in to full blown period extreme cramping back ache I'm currently unable to get out of bed can anyone tell me if they have had similar situation and the baby has carried on growing etc?

[Babyquest]

I have no advice Kewii. Just to say that I have also had 5 miscarriages but they were since my first baby. It’s so so hard and I know the anxiety you are having. I hope all goes ok for you this time.

[Kewii in reply to Babyquest]

It's horrible ain't it I keep telling my self it's all fine because the scan showed baby with a heart beat but surely bleeding this amount ain't normal 😪 I hope your well and thankyou x

[ttcemmie]

Sorry to hear you're going through this, Kewii. I really hope for the best outcome for you. You have been through a lot and this must be a very anxious time for you. There are definitely people on this forum that have been through large bleeding and it's been fine, but I've had the opposite problem of a missed miscarriage (no physical issues and thinking everything is fine) so no personal experience to help you with. I'm glad you had the scan and got to see the heartbeat, but I know that doesn't stop the anxiety right now. Thinking of you and sending love. x

[Kewii in reply to ttcemmie]

Hi sorry only just seen this yes my anxiety is over the roof the bleeding&clotting and pain is draining me right now I litrally cant move it hurts that much I'm pretty sure there no baby left after this surly there cant be with the amount I'm bleeding etc I'm just so confused and lost at the moment.... and I'm so sorry to hear that hun 😔 and thankyou xxx

[ttcemmie in reply to Kewii]

Really sorry to hear this. 😢😢😢 Have you let your clinic know? Hopefully they can support you through this also. Would booking in for another scan help just so you know? x

[Kewii in reply to ttcemmie]

Basically when I went for last scan I was told it was twins one had all ready gone and 1 was fine with heart beat etc today I was rushed to hospital and sadly lost the other baby 😭😭 I am litrally an emotional wreck xx

[ttcemmie in reply to Kewii]

That's awful. Oh god Kewii. I am so so sorry. There is nothing I can say to make it better. This is a tremendous amount of grief and devastation, and I just hope you and your partner can support each other. And that you have family and friends that will support you also. You need all the love you can possible surround yourself with. And I am thinking of you and sending special love. Really sorry. This isn't fair. xxxxxxxxxx

[Kewii in reply to ttcemmie]

Thankyou for your reply it really means a lot and everyone that knows have been amazing supporting me im lucky because I have my little girl and little boy by my side 🥰 I hope your well I really do appreciate your comments and support xxx