Another setback

[Core]

So gutted I rang the clinic today and they said due to coronavirus they aren’t starting any new cycles 😭 I know there are bigger problems but I just feel like my life is on hold and my dream of being a Mum is getting further and further away. I know lots are in the same boat and my heart goes out to everyone.

Trying to look on the positive side I’m telling myself my body will have a break from hormones and if it didn’t work and I was stuck at home it would be really difficult for my mental health. On the flip side of it did work I think it would be an even more anxious time to be pregnant. I’m just hoping it passes quickly and we can get through to the other side xx

[Hidden]

I've just heard the same. Having been encouraged by the clinic this morning to crack on ASAP with the next round (Still bleeding from failure of last one!!) they are now saying they won't take on any more people and are cancelling FETs left right and centre (mine would have been a fresh cycle).

I am trying to think positive and think with pubs & restaurants closed I won't be going out so won't be tempted to drink, and it gives a couple more months of supplements to try and make an impact on my eggs. But that PMA disappears within minutes and I just think I am going to be months older and my chances are getting smaller and smaller by the week. arghhhh.

Hugs lovely xx

[Core in reply to Hidden]

So sorry to hear yours is also cancelled. Well done for thinking positively but I know what you mean one minute I’m ok with it and then I’m panicking what if it takes a year to sort this out!! I’m trying to take a day at a time but not exactly easy xx

[Cinderella5]

I'm the same!! Really pee'd off with it all Core! It just seems like we get some strength to power on and it's all swiped away!😤 Hang on in there lovely, we're mostly all in the same boat and we'll get each other through!!xxx

[Core in reply to Cinderella5]

Aw so sorry to hear that, I know surely we’ve had enough bumps in the road now?? I’m just hoping they are talking about worse case scenario and it won’t be as bad/take as long as it seems xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Core]

I'm hoping so too!! I just keep thinking they cant drag this on for months!!xx

[Core in reply to Cinderella5]

I just hope they don’t liken it to Zikka virus and think it’s not ok to do treatment to get people pregnant xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Core]

It's not sounding that way so far so can only hope!!xx

[Hidden]

Oh hun I'm so sorry,I know exactly how you feel,my transfer also been cancelled and like you feel like the dream of being a mom slipping away,im 43 in Aug so with every month that passes im another month older. We just need to try and stay as positive as we can xx

[Core in reply to Hidden]

So sorry to hear yours is cancelled let’s hope it won’t be as bad and will be sorted quickly xx

[Tryagain45]

I'm so sorry Core and Cinders and Daisy and Clairenix, and anyone in this situation. When you constantly live in limbo anyway with IVF, it's even worse if anything influences things in tip of that.

My thoughts are with you all and I hope things settle down enough soon for you all to crack on. Huge hugs xxx❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Core in reply to Tryagain45]

Thank you so much lovely xx

[Hidden in reply to Tryagain45]

Thankyou lovely, my consultant emailed me yesterday to suggest a couple of additional's for next time,embryo glue, scratch and doing the deed 6 days before FET so will look into those and will give me something to concentrate on.

How are you doing? Xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

That’s interesting! Why dtd did he say?

My clinic used a different embryo glue called embryogen last time which is supposed to be very good but it’s about £450 extra xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

This will be our 6th transfer and I've had a mmc and 2 chemicals, we have tweeted my protocols by having clexane,predisinone and intralipids so I just asked him what else we could do differently this time. Im also having accupuncture and have spoken with a nutritionist so changing my diet and added in lots of supplements as I have immune issues so throwing everything into this one xx

[Core in reply to Hidden]

Haha ‘doing the deed 6 days before FET’ that’s a new one! What was the evidence there? Sure DH will be pleased to hear that 😂 I’m ok just hoping the world gets back to normal soon xx

[Hidden in reply to Core]

It was a new one on me too,something to do endometrium priming, the contact of the ejaculate with the endometrium, don't think I will be using those exact words with the oh hahaha xx

[Georgie17]

Such a difficult time on top of all we have to go through with infertility. Hang in there, we can support each other whilst we wait for our treatments to restart. It is so hard to wait though xx

[Core in reply to Georgie17]

I know as if we don’t have enough to deal with on this journey!!xx

[Lots8788]

Big hugs to you lovely xx here if you want to chat or rant x x

[Italy300618]

I am so sorry, my heart goes out to you, it's so devastating all these cycles getting cancelled. I am meant to be starting on Sunday but they havent told me either way as yet. When do you think you'll be able to go again? Did they give you any idea? Xx

[Core in reply to Italy300618]

Did you find out about yours? They don’t really know but realistically a few months yet xx

[Italy300618 in reply to Core]

Weve decided not to go ahead with treatment starting Sunday. Incredibly difficult decision 💔 but the nurse said today that they would only be doing freeze all cycles, (we never have anything to freeze) and mild stimulation to prevent ohss (well I need max dosage because of amh) so all in all it is not worth the money and emotional stress. What a week it's been. Its devastating. At least we are all there for each other to support one another. Hopefully a few months, but feels like forever away 😥

Hope you're ok lovely xx

[Core in reply to Italy300618]

Aw I’m so sorry to hear that but I’m sure it’s the right decision. Let’s hope this all passes quickly and we can all get back on track with treatments xx

[Italy300618 in reply to Core]

Definitely xx