Away to start the next fet

[Boo718]

I’m just away to start our next fet and I can’t help feel that I’m not that bothered. We have had so many rounds with a negative result I just think ‘ah well here we go again’ ‘ooo is that another negative who’d have thought’ 🤦‍♀️ Anyone else feel the same. I’m not negative as such just more ..meh 😕 xxx

[walkingmountains]

Yes I feel this way we have just had a fourth failed embryo transfer, one transfer ended up in a miscarriage too. Such a hard journey. We have one frozen embryo left from our second cycle then we have to start paying for our treatment if we continue. We are constantly picking ourselves up. All I can say is be positive and have hope that it will work one day - easier said then done I know Xx

[ttcemmie]

Jaded feels like the right word for this.... You know deep down you have the hope and the excitement (otherwise none of us would put ourselves through all this), but can understand feeling meh about this round as you've seen it all before. Very well done on your perseverance and best of luck for this round. xxx

[Up2theuniverse]

I feel exactly the same way, I feel it’s easier to try to prepare myself for the worst as I’ve been let down so much. And the waiting game makes it even harder, I’m just hoping that if this cycle isn’t going to work that I just find out tomorrow rather than after more multiple FET transfers and miscarriages. Life can be so cruel.

Though the little ray of hope is still there, I’m sure if we succeed we’ll be telling everyone how awesome IVF is haha!

[Angels2us]

Yes this is exactly how I feel, week two of down drugs , but every day I feel like I can't be bothered never thought I would feel this way, I feel like quitting every single day

My husband keeps saying we need to keep going but I don't know anymore 😥😥😥😥

[Boo718 in reply to Angels2us]

Omg yes. It’s not that I’m negative and stressing about it. I’m more ‘over it’ before it’s even started. I’m literally like ‘yeh whatever’ not gonna get pregnant sitting on the couch so I may aswell give it a bash. Hope ur doing ok? Xxx I’m just waiting for lady fairy to arrive to get started xxx

[Angels2us]

Exactly how I feel to the tee ,yes feel like what ever , it's my 6 go so just feeling it's never going to work 😘😘😘

[Boo718 in reply to Angels2us]

Me too. Number 6 🤦‍♀️ Xxx