Natural conception after IVF miscarriage

[nr03]

I got my BFP on the 3rd FET. I was super happy and excited when we heard the heartbeat at 6 weeks 3 days. Everything thereafter seemed normal, with no spotting, no bleeding, no cramps. However when we went in for our 12 week NT scan we were in for a rude shock. The embryo was no longer visible. It had been reabsorbed. As per the radiologist we probably lost our little one soon after the 6 week scan.

I have been devastated and do not know how to put myself together. I am not sure I have the strength to go through another round of IVF. I am looking for any success stories where someone conceived naturally soon after an IVF miscarriage

[Luna_79]

I’m so so sorry to hear of your loss, I’m afraid I can’t comment as not managed to get that far. I’m sure plenty of others though who have been. I only know how devastating it is not to be pregnant so can’t imagine the excitement of where you got to to then go through the news that you had lost your little one. It’s so hard to pull yourself back up and face going through it again but when the time is right for you , you and your partner will be ready to face it together, sending you much love xx

[Jam-master]

So sorry to hear of your loss, I am going for bloods tomorrow to confirm a miscarriage after a FET on the 19th. My husband and I have had the same conversation about whether we could ever conceive naturally. We have a 2 year old from ISC and this was our first FET. It’s hard so I would also like to know of success stories. Hope you’re doing ok xx

[Jessy1280]

I'm sorry for your loss. Similar happened to me at Xmas. 9 weeks scan, no heartbeat anymore after only seeing it for the third time a few days earlier. No indication that there was anything wrong. Recently found out the sex and the cause. I don't have any pearls of wisdom but the only thing that has kept me going is the thought of getting my dream. Currently on cycle 3. Unfortunately it's the crap we have to put ourselves through in order to get our dream. Then, all the tears and heartbreak will be worth it. There have been times when I thought I was losing my mind. Still grieving my baby but I desperately want to be a mum so here we go again.... Xxx

[nr03 in reply to Jessy1280]

Sorry for your loss too. What was the cause ?

I can't seem to put myself back together and very afraid of the same thing repeating when I conceive.

[Jessy1280 in reply to nr03]

Cause was full trisomy 9. Apparently very rare. I'm starting stims tonight and like you, terrified of it happening again. Fortunately chances of recurrent are really low so the odds are in our favour x

[RhinoCat]

Oh pet , gutted to read about your 12 week scan . Must have been such an awful shock

Sending love and hugs 💐

[Chantysal]

Im sorry to hear about ur loss. I was wondering the same thing today.. after 3 failed cycle im hoping to concieve naturally. Will try to take ubiquinol and do some research on other things.. maybe .. just maybe