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Sadly our sixth Christmas of trying without being pregnant. It wasn't our time. Hope it is soon!! Good luck to rest of you in the 2ww XX

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Livinginhope2019

I’m so sorry, sending you a big hug xxx

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Love4spitz

So sorry... keep positive. Spoil yourself this Christmas. Big hug

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Tugsgirl

Sending a gentle hug and hoping for the best new year ever for you xx

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Picalilli99

I’m so sorry. It really sucks! Sending love and hugs. And wishing you the best of luck for your bfp next time ☘️ Xxxx

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andromedae9

So sorry to hear this. Big hug

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Shirazlover2013

I’m sorry to hear of your BFN, I know it’s not the Christmas present you wanted. I hope you can still enjoy some of the festive treats (bring on the mulled wine) and fingers crossed, no everything crossed for a good 2020 for you xx

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SparkleCock

So sorry darling. Sending lots of love. 2020 here we come! Xx

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CLDxxx in reply to SparkleCock

Hope you’re well lovely xxx

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SparkleCock in reply to CLDxxx

Thanks honey. Just hoping, wishing, waiting. You know how it goes. Sending love to you too xx

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CLDxxx in reply to SparkleCock

Hoping for you too ❤️

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CLDxxx

Sorry to hear this lovely. Plan lots of lovely things this Xmas, you deserve it xxx

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Baypony

Oh Myrtle hang in there. I am finally pregnant on our 8th Christmas. Never thought last Christmas we would be expecting this Christmas, although it was like Christmas when we got our first bfp after 7 years. I’m hoping Santa brings you some baby dust 🤞

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Infertilemyrtle in reply to Baypony

Thank you for sharing, this gives me some hope. Christmas can be a painful reminder of what we don't have , but so glad you got your BFP and so glad you get to enjoy a pregnant Christmas after such a long wait xx

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FrancyItaly

Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m also hoping to get a BFP by Christmas and I’m not feeling very positive right now! 2020 can still be our year! Wish you all the best!

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Core

So sorry to hear this, hoping next Christmas will be completely different xx

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Purplis

So sorry Infertilemyrtle

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sadievalentie

Hi there! How are you? I hope you are doing better now. I am so sorry for what you are going through. It's such a difficult thing to deal with. You need to be strong. It will take some time for you to recover from it, so give yourself time. Take good care of yourself and enjoy. If you are frustrated about it, take a break. I hope you celebrate next Christmas with your baby. We are all here for you, don't worry. Stay blessed. Good luck! Bye!

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Alyssa123

Hi! I hope you are doing better now. I am really sorry about this. I am still glad that you guys are so strong. Many people will be inspired by your story. If you keep trying like this then soon you will be able to get that BFP. That's what people have to understand. If you stay strong and patient, things will work out for you. Good things take some time and effort. I hope you get your BFP before next Christmas. Good luck. Stay blessed. Take care. Bye!

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LorrieWalden

Hi there! How are you? You are doing the right thing by not giving up. It took me so many years to make it work. But the moment it worked out for me, it was worth it. The struggle, the pain, the time it took, it was all worth it. There's nothing more beautiful in this world than a baby. So no matter how much effort it takes, you have to do it. I will pray that things get easier for you. My blessings are with you. Keep us updated. Take good care of yourself. Best of Luck. Goodbye!

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