Title says it all really, was really hoping we had found a formula for getting pregnant but this morning was another negative. I’m so worried that the last pregnancy was a fluke and it will never happen again for us ☹️
Not the Valentine’s I hoped for but plan is cwtch up on the sofa with a takeaway, wine and lots of chocolate and hopefully get some positivity back over the next few days
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So sorry to be reading this sad news 😢 I hope you two can come together enjoy some naughty food and get back into a positives head space together. Please don’t give up hope. I am sure you have read lots of success stories after hitting every hurdle possible on here . Sending lots of love xxxx
🙈Dear Core, I am so sorry to hear your sad news 💔it’s heart breaking. Take your time to digest and try to relax and go back to ‘normal’ life. We are warriors and if we persevere we’ll get our babies one day- I know it’s hard to believe but we must keep believing. Sending lots of love and a special warm hug 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓xxxxx
I am so sorry to read this 😔😔. It all just seems so unfair, I wish it was the news you both wanted today, for now enjoy those luxuries that you've so missed and give yourself some time to recoup. Big hugs to you xxxxx
Sorry to hear your sad news, chocolates and takeaway is the way to go! Xx
Oh lovely I am so sorry, I so so hoped you would get some good news. its so hard to comprehend when you know your body has got pregnant before - why won't it do it again.
I am 100% sure it wasn't a fluke - and you will get there again. But for now have a good cry, chug a load of wine and feel sorry for yourself for a bit.
Oh no Core I’m so sorry it was a bfn. Absolutely gutted for you. I think the worry is totally understandable after feeling like you had worked out what you needed to do and after your bfp last time. But try not to give up hope it will happen again, I’m sure it will lovely. But for now, give yourself time, feel sorry for yourself (because it is really shit!), look after each other and enjoy that well deserved wine! Sending love and hugs your way ❤️ xxx
Oh sorry to hear this Core. I'm glad you are looking after yourself cuddled up with drinks, sofa night and a takeaway. It's so, so hard but it wasn't a fluke before and you will get there. Thinking of you 💐
So so sorry lovely. Had really hoped this was your time. Do what you need to do. Drink all the wine, eat all the chocolate & cry as much as you need. Thinking of you with love xxx
BFN here too at 10 days past transfer, thinking I'm definitely out and just feel broken this time. 3rd round but only 2nd transfer. We are planning a takeaway tomorrow night but unfortunately no booze as I want to be 100% sure it's a negative first. Sounds ridiculous but just want my period to come if I'm not preggo. Dont know how to carry on with normal life this time ☹
I'm so sorry to read this. I had my negative this morning on test day. Second round of ICSI with first round not even reaching any fertilisation. I have never been pregnant naturally. My OH doesn't want to go through this anymore so I really don't know where to go or what to do. I have probs with egg quality and quantity and he has probs with motility so I don't think it will ever happen naturally for us. I just don't know what to do now. 😕😕 xx
Unfortunately I don't think so. He is very black and white with the whole situation. It is an awful one for me to even think about coz I don't want to be without him but I also can't imagine my life without children. So I don't really know what I am going to do. 😕😕😕😔😔 xxxx
I really feel for you, this would break my heart coz like you I couldn’t imagine life without hubby or without kids. Do you think maybe seeing a counsellor would help?xx
O yes. Definitely on my to do list thank you. I need to get my head around the fact that I could never fall pregnant naturally coz of my low quality/low quantity eggs. So I definitely will speak to someone. Thank u. 😊😊 xxx
Awww core I completely sympathise!! Such a disappointing time, we thought we had a winning formula too. I hope you had a nice evening together last night, well as much as you can do! Massive hugs, it's just not fair!!😕xxx
It does take it out of you! I hope you manage to get some rest this weekend. I'm doing ok, I've had a good cry but I'm feeling a bit better....I even shed a wee tear at bloody Hollyoaks last night as there was a baby scan!🙈 Getting there though!! Having some treats this weekend, nice food & drinks and a cosy time with hubby.xxx
Yes that’s exactly the plan! Takeaway last night and feeling a bit stronger today so have booked a meal out. Hope you’re also doing the same and having a lovely time together xx
So sorry to hear this. Don't give up. Take time to heal. All the best. X
Im so sorry to hear it was a negative, you take care of you. I'm sure it wasn't a fluke I just think there are just so many factors that have to be right, try not to give up hope xx
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