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BFN 😭😭😭

Unfortunately our test day is today and we got a negative. It's been our first round of ivf with Icsi but our only funded round! Gutted to say the least, I haven't had a bleed yet though so gonna call clinic see what they suggest happens next.

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So sorry xxx 💖

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Oh no that doesn't sound good but you said you haven't a period. Did you do a home test ? As the blood test are more accurate.

Be positive hopefully everything turns out good for you.

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Yep just a home test, waiting to speak to nurse to see what she suggests, I think it should show up on home test by now even faintly xx

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Speak to your nurse an see what she says. As our nurses here do a blood test on either 12 or 14 days after to confirm. be positive an hope for the best. Xx

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Thank you I have to test again in 3 days then call them back again cx

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Say positive an all the best xx

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Thinking of you x

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I am so sorry Laura. Sending you lots of hugs.

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Sorry to hear this bfn are rubbish. Look after yourself x

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Oh this makes me sad to read. I will pray for you that it's bfp for you in 3days, sending you big hugs xxx

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Thank you lovely it looks unlikely but I'll do what they say then can book my review with them x

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I know how you feel about it being the only free go, as we are the same and that I hope mine has worked it's just so unfair, but I'm not feeling very confident right now xx

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I tried to keep positive but it just wasn't meant to be, my clinic do a ivf refund and multi cycle program which Im gonna look into as its meant to be cheaper to do using that. Stay positive for good news xx

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Yeah I have to say I've heard of a programme where you get your money bk if it's doesn't result in a positive, but it then finding the money, oh it's all such a horrible circle xx

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Exactly, we are lucky that we can do the funded round but obviously would have preferred the NHS cycle to work, we had none frozen as not good quality so in normal circumstances would have got a FET as part of funded nhs but now we won't. X

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Yeah that's the same as us we didn't have any to freeze. But we don't have the money so will have to start saving if it hasn't worked 😢 Xx

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Aw so sorry to read this. So hard to deal with after everything you have to go through to get to this point. Thinking of you both x

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So sorry Laura, big hugs .x

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I'm so sorry Laura. Sending lots of love x x x

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Sorry to hear your news. I never bleed while on the progesterone and always had to wait extra days and test again. Leaves you with a little hope bit also prolongs the pain. Bfn's are so hard. Take time to recover before planning your next move. Sending hugs xxx

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So sorry Laura you've got to keep hope though xx

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Sooo sorrry sweetheart . Just have no words to describe what ur feeling.thinking of you dear. Xx

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We were the same, one funded go only. Thankfully we have the Frosties and using them is so much cheaper than a fresh round because a fet was not included for us. I got my period a few days after stopping all medication; progesterone and hrt patches.

I'm sorry to hear you got a bfn. It's truly a horrible outcome. Look after yourself x

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I'm so sorry to hear this, it's such a hard road. Lots of hugs and courage to try again, don't give up xoxo

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So sorry to hear this. Look after yourself. X

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Sorry to read your first test was a negative 👎 but it's not quite over just yet. Will have my fingers crossed for your test in a few days x 🤞🏽🙏🏽

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So so sorry to read this Laura, be strong ok. Out thoughts go to you and we are here to support you

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Sorry to hear this, thinking of you. x

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Xxxxx

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So sorry to read this.. sending hugs xxxxx

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I'm so sorry Laura it is really heartbreaking to get a bfn, we had exactly the same last year with icsi and our only funded round. It was very heard but we came through it, some advice is take some time out for yourselves now, look after yourself through this initial grief then do somethings together as a couple to help heal. Take care xxx

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So sorry to hear your news, thinking of you xxxxxxxxxx

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I'm so sorry Laura, it's heart breaking and just let all the sadness and negativity to come out, you are allowed to feel exactly how you are feeling. Lots of love from here <3

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Thank you I've taken this week off work to get my head around it all then I'll be back to fighting again 😊 x

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