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Felt so positive about this one but another BFN. I know so many people on here have had this result many more times and kept going, some with happy endings, but currently feeling like I can't face doing this again. I know I have no choice and I'll regret it if I don't. How do other people manage to pick themselves up and get ready to start again? I just feel I'm setting myself up yo feel devastated again.

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Core

I’m so sorry to hear this. I don’t think there’s any great formula for being ready to start again it just takes time. Plan some nice things to do with your OH. But also don’t feel bad about having time to yourself and if you need to say no to social events then that is fine xx

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aamiller405

I'm so sorry.. I think the only advice I have is to take your time.. Don't try again until you're ready.. Take care of yourself in the mean time xo

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Cinderella5

I'm sorry about your BFNs. I somt really have any hard and fast advice but just go with doing whatever makes you feel a bit better. I usually try to plan something nice with hubby, a treat. Lots of gin, eat rubbish and pick myself up when I'm really to go. I'm always better with a plan too so I usually try to work out what's next but that's not for everyone and some people just need to step away for a while. Hugs.xx

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