And still bleeding

[Sexy376]

So my OTD is tomorrow but the bleeding has got worse and getting darker and more clots...so that’s another failed attempt!!

So we have had 2 fresh cycles 1 FET and never had a positive we even had 2 embies put in this time but still no nothing!! I really give up..... im 38 so not got time on my side!

Just want some advice help anything really.....

We have done all our cycles at London Guys Hospital with have excellent results but I don’t know if changing the clinic would Make a difference or should I just give up altogether and get over the fact I’m never going to be a mother? And just be happy I have 3 step kids that won’t ever be the same?

Can’t have any NHS funded treatment as my hubby has kids so we have to pay how does everyone afford all this?? When do you stop? Shall I just give up? Anyone have any help for me just don’t know anymore is there anywhere that do good prices or help with affording? Or even trials?

Any help would be great thanks

Anna xx

[LunaLovegood11]

Hey, I’m the same age xxx

We have to pay because it’s not funded in our area. We found Access Fertility do refund programmes which looked helpful.

I’ve heard there are egg sharing programmes if you have lots of eggs and sometimes abroad can be cheaper, but I don’t know how easy it is or how much it can save.

The whole process is shit. Have your clinic given you any advice for next steps? Xx

[Faith103]

Have you considered an endometrial scratch. This might clear the womb and help embryo stick xxxx

[Sexy376 in reply to Faith103]

Hi ya can you do that on the Nhs at all? Xx

[Faith103 in reply to Sexy376]

Yes after so many failed attempts they will do it for you as higher chance of implantation. I would defo ask xxxx

[Jessy1280]

I have to self fund as oh had Vasectomy then vasectomy reversal. My mum has paid for most of it (3 cycles) and I've tried my best to contribute towards meds and tests. Currently on cycle 2. I'm 38 also, never had children and panicking that time is running out. I feel like I can never give up ivf though until I've got my baby x