So… tested early again (told you I am a serial tester) and no change . My back and stomach are REALLY aching today too - cramps are definitely upped and as per other cycles I can feel AF is trying to break through 😫.
My transfer was last Wednesday at 2pm- OTD is this coming Wednesday but I know I would see at least a faint line by now . I am absolutely gutted and numb too. These were the best embryos we have had (only 2 of them and only 2 day) but it was the best we have had . This hasn’t worked so I don’t know what we can do next .
I know others had their OTD today on a 5 day transfer so hoping today is luckier for some of you ! 🤞🏼
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Don't panic! Whatever happens you WILL be okay. I would test again on OTD and see what the genuine result is. There is still hope at this stage though I do understand the disappointment you feel. Have you always done the same protocols or have they been changed each time? Xx
Always been pretty similar/ they’ve never really suggested anything else ? 🤷🏼♀️
We did one round private and 2 nhs . The second nhs (this one) they upped the menopur by 75ml but that was the only thing they changed - ironically we got less eggs too! 🙄
We have a huge sperm issue but I think as time passes and I am getting older , my eggs are also against us . I just don’t know what to do. Seems pointless to do the same thing and just “hope” this is the time …..😪 xx
Same girl day 7 for me and still tested negative. I’m devastated already. My first cycle was successful and I was hoping this one would be too. My partner has male infertility and I’m completely fertile 😔
Hi lovely, I wonder if it still a bit too early to test. I don't have experience of a 2 day transfer, but I would have thought that would be a tad too early to have a trustworthy result yet. I know some women may show up on an early test, but I have seen plenty of posts on here where women have tested early and it has been negative then gone on to be a positive. Don't lose your hope yet, I know it is hard though ❤You can think of a forward plan if you need to, but try to focus on testing on your OTD first. Good luck 🍀 x
I know it is still four days early …. Logic tells me to hold out ….. but you are SO many posts on here where people have had a positive at your stage that you lose hope, don’t you? Plus, previous disappointment also plays a part I think.
I just can’t imagine the result changing now . Today I have had real AF feels - and it would be due about now so makes sense .
Why is this such a shit journey?!! 😫. Thank you again though. And, I really hope you’re right . 🤞🏼
I know exactly what you mean, but don't forget we are all so different. Just because one woman shows positive on an early test it does not mean another will 🙂 I have never been lucky enough to have a positive test yet, so I am certainly no expert, but I would say continue with all your medication and hold out until your OTD now, if you can. I know, it is so hard. I have never been an early tester, but when I started bleeding early on some of my transfers I have been 99% sure it was game over. The disappointment is crushing, especially after the rollercoaster of emotions you have already gone through. But you have support here whatever the result 💐 x
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