Arghhhh

[SunnyDan1987]

That’s how I feel right now. So this will sound really silly, but as lunch had finished a 19 year old co worker just came into the kitchen and said “I feel pregnant” and I just laughed it off saying “you are having a pasta baby” she then went on to say that she could be pregnant as she isn’t taking contraception. And even though it was all “banter” I just thought how this flippant remark made me feel so sad. And these are the things I face every day.....I am sitting here knowing my body doesn’t “work”....I’m also due on which has been easier to deal with know my tubes are gone and I don’t have that hope every month if I am pregnant but it doesn’t make it any easier 💔

[Picalilli99]

Sorry this situation at work upset you today. I just wanted to say you are not alone in these feelings. I’ve definitely been there! Sending big hugs xxx

[SunnyDan1987 in reply to Picalilli99]

I sometimes want to just say/scream “I can’t have kids naturally and I’m angry!” But I just put that mask on and smile. But I survived another day and that’s the main thing xx

[Kat9lives]

Sending big hugs too. Xx

[SunnyDan1987 in reply to Kat9lives]

Thank you xxx

[SunnyDan1987 in reply to Kat9lives]

Thank you xx

[Core]

Sending a big hug, I hate how one minute you can be feeling fine and then someone makes a comment and it can make you feel awful again xx

[SunnyDan1987 in reply to Core]

It’s crazy how this one comment can make you feel. But went to the gym and let out my frustration. And now I’m back in my happy place xx

[SunnyDan1987 in reply to Core]

I find that happening so much recently. I’m trying to learn to just brush it off. Have a lovely day xx

[amandac84]

I’m so sorry these situations are just awful. I can relate I work in HR today had a pregnant lady cry on me as she’s felt so unwell and said “I hate being pregnant”.... I just got my period (which is fine but my emotions are gone) dong worry it’s understandable to feel arjhhhhhhh we all have those moments xx

[SunnyDan1987 in reply to amandac84]

My best friend is pregnant and is really sick and has had similar things. I don’t want her to tip toe round me but sometimes I think I would take all that sickness over what I am going through. But I understand pregnancy isn’t easy for everyone. Xx

[Rainbowhope]

I know how you feel. I hear the team that sits behind me constantly talking about their children. All day long they make random flippant remarks about their children and how annoying they are. I just feel sad inside and it makes me think how lucky people are without ever appreciating it