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Well I cant quite believe it. And I have never ever been so tired in my life! Finally it is our turn! No name yet but we are so proud, relieved and feel blessed that our little rainbow "chunky monkey" arrived by c section (after 4 days of different ways to be induced) yesterday morning.

10lb and 1 oz, 2 weeks overdue and he has a huge appetite but latched on straight away.

Some of you will remember me from before. Once we got our bfp, I moved to the other group as I known how hard it is to see all the positive posts when you are still struggling. I had to read them myself. Still, I also found it very supportive and encouraging when people came back to post their longed for dreams as success.

After 7 years, 6 rounds of ivf and 1 miscarriage, I have been through so much to get to this point. I (mostly) believed that our dream would come true one day and here we finally are.

Thank you to all on here for the support you have given to me and continue to give patiently to others. And a very special shout out to DianeArnold who somehow manages to keep us all sane!

Big hugs to you all and I wish every single one of you the very best and at least one bouncing bundle of joy.

Xx

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Kwags

What a beautiful end!! And such faith and positivity to sustain the journey...enjoy your new blessing-10lbs,aww 🥰😘

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Rella22

Massive congratulations on your handsome baby! Such a long wait but finally you’ve gotten the beautiful gift 💝

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Ajplus1

Congratulations hun. I’m so incredibly happy for you. Enjoy every moment with your chunky Munky cx

huge congratulations to you and your partner he is gorgeous x

you've come such a long way now he is now enjoy ever second of making lots of new memories xx

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Mantaray75

Massive congratulations. I’m up for the 3rd time tonight with Luna (damn 4 month sleep regression) but so happy to read this. X

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HopeTTC18

Congratulations and thank you for sharing your story. Enjoy every precious moment with your beautiful boy x

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Novice_knitter

So so happy for you, I bet you’re tired after all those different induction attempts but imagine at the same time you don’t even care as you have your special little boy on your arms. Massive congratulations to you on his birth after all the past heartache. Have a wonderful time in these first few months as you get to know each other and find your feet. Thank you for sharing Xxxx

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Kiedy84

Now that's the post I want to see at 5am while lying awake in bed 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

Absolutely thrilled for you, congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

So wonderful to see your happy ending, thank you so much for sharing and for being here for us all. Wishing you many beautiful moments💞💞

Wow! I’ve even waiting to see this news! You’ve been so supportive on this group and I am absolutely delighted he is here and safely! Congratulations to you and your OH and can I just say wow what a whopper! He’s gorgeous xx

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Thank you very much Daisy. How are you holding up? X

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I’m ok. Pretty sure this round hasn’t worked so all PMA gone and wishing it over so I can drink wine and then refocus on round four! Thank you for all the advice you have given me over the last year or so. Hope you manage to get some sleep and enjoy motherhood. Keep us updated how you are getting on and when you have a name xx

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Remember every single 2ww has that slump where we are convinced it hasn't worked. Really hope you get your bfp this time. Now go find your positive pants! Xx

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Frussy

Congratulations on your little angel 😇

So happy for you and thank you for sharing your story give so many hopes that it can be happening and even if it is a hard journey we can do this. Have precious moments with your beautiful angel 👶

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Anya80

Awww, congratulations ❤️💙❤️💙so amazing news🥰 enjoy your beautiful prince💙💙💙💙

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Orla9298

Congratulations!!xx

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Sarah_a_2018

Congratulations on the arrival of your beautiful baby boy xx

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Olderwiser

Ah congrats - I’ve been wondering how you were doing... fabulous news! Xx

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Jenjen84

Huge congratulations to you all! Enjoy every moment of this long awaited for bundle of joy.. xxx

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Tugsgirl

Hey 👋🏻 This is fab news! I can’t believe you we’re hiding a 10lb 1oz baby in that neat bump of yours! Oddly though, he doesn’t look that big to me.. Well done and Congratulations! xx

in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you. Not that long for you now too. Hope your labour is much shorter and you are home before you all know it as a family xxx

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Tugsgirl in reply to

Nothing I’d like more! 😅 Induction is booked for August 9th 😅 Thank you xx

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Niki_B

Massive congrats to you hun! Hes gorgeous! 😍 I'm so glad you finally got your miracle! Did you get a surprise and still not know babys sex before he was born? What an amazing surprise I bet!! 😃 So so happy for you and hubby enjoy your little (or should I say big!) rainbow xx 🌈😍💕💗

Massive congratulations. xx

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Noah1981

Congratulations I’m in awwwh if you your a trooper well done enjoy your beautiful son xxx

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LKT1

Congratulations what a beautiful baby and lovely family. So pleased for you XX

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Pancakexox

Congratulations, this gives me so much hope ❤️ all the very best to you and your gorgeous little family! Xx

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Strawberrychaos

Aww congratulations hunni, I’m so happy for you. Finally got your little miracle!! Enjoy every second, cause they grow so fast. I still can’t believe mine will be one on Sunday xx

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HollieW

I was looking forward to your announcement that baby had arrived as knew it must be imminent. Glad he has arrived safely and at over 10 pounds he definitely is a chunky monkey!! Lovely to hear he has latched on straight away. Enjoy this precious time. All the heartache you have been through has been worth it xx

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WeeMrsH

Massive congratulations on your baby boy! 💙❤️

Congratulations so very pleased for you, 🎉🎊🍾🥳 I am the same age as you and you have given me hope that it could happen for me currently on cycle 4 🥺 trying to stay positive in the 2ww 😄 enjoy life as a family xx

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Ohhh massive crossed fingers and toes for you. Really hope it all goes well x

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Thank u xx☺️

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AS100

Congratulations!!! What a journey, you guys are made of tough stuff ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 xxx

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Noobs

Aw congratulations. So very very pleased for you all. What a journey and let the next exciting one commence! Hope your doing okay.xx

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Kempton

Huge congratulations! I guessed you were having a boy! Enjoy every second :) xx 🎈

in reply to Kempton

Lots of people did. Even we thought a boy, but it was so lovely to have the surprise and mikey to give the news. He has only really cried with happiness twice that I have known about- the day we got married and the moment our wee one was born and we heard his wee cry x

Congratulations!! That's such a lovely and hopeful story. Enjoy your little one 😊

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Sandyels

Congratulations! I wish you lol the best with your wee chunky monkey!

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Scarlett13

Oh wow! Great photo. He looks perfect. What a looooooooong journey you 2 have had to get your precious baby. Totally worth the heartache and wait I’m sure. Thank you for all the support you have given everyone on here over the years. Enjoy naming and snuggles xxx

🎉 congratulations to u both I was thinking about you and wowzas 10lb! Enjoy 😘

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Birdboy1

Wow super amazing news, massive congratulations xx

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Ritzy54

Massive congratulations! Very pleased for you. Enjoy it all! x

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KJLee

Congratulations to you both! Been thinking about you a lot lately and wishing this post to arrive 🤗 so happy he is finally here safe and sound. Lots of love xx

in reply to KJLee

Thank you so much x

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EmGLA

Biggest congratulations ever!!! He looks perfect and you sound like an absolute hero!!

Xx

Congratulations.xxxx😘

Huge congratulations. I’m so very happy to read your update, so sorry you had a tough time having him but so happy he’s here safely & you are okay.

Bloody hell you did end with a ten pounder 😳 you are a trouper! My daughter was 8lbs 14oz she was 4 days over due, my son only weighed 6lbs 6oz at 39 weeks plus 1 day!!!

Your little boy is absolutely gorgeous what beautiful set of hair he has & so peachy coloured 😍 such s beautiful picture of you all ❤️💙

The good thing about having a bigger sized baby is they tend to be better at feeding & latching apparently the midwife said the bigger baby’s are more advanced ! Whereas it took my son a few weeks to get the hang of breast feeding, it wasn’t easy. My daughter got the hang of it instantly & is already going through the night at 6 weeks from 9pm - 5am health visitor was amazed! I’m sure that’s down to being bigger sized. 👍

It is so good to have the happy endings here it gives others hope when things feel bleak, such a difficult journey we can all agree on that but yeah it’s good to be thoughtful of other people’s feelings.

Enjoy every moment with your precious baby, rest when you can your body has been through a lot. If I can give a bit of advice try to sleep whenever baby is having a nap in the day, also limit visits/ visitors everyone loves to see a baby & it’s lovely for you to show your baby especially after such a journey but try not to have too many visits it’s tiring looking after a baby you need to rest not have to entertain other people. We were quite strict on this you need time as a family to “gel” we didn’t want lots of people over only close family in his 2 weeks off i didn’t think wasn’t fair as I felt it his time to have & bond with his daughter. It’s easier for us women as we’ve spent 9 months bonding.Do whatever is right for you all. Such a precious time for you 3 💙xoxo

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Great words of advice, thank you. We just had our first night st home. I know we will figure everything out. I am already doing a parenting style I said we wouldn't do ha ha. But, night one is ok right ha ha x

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Kari55

Big congratulations! X

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Reb990

Congratulations! I’ve been keeping an eye out most days to see if baby had made an appearance yet. Dad looks a natural already 🥰 enjoy every min even the middle of the night feeds x

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2-shades-of-hope

Fantastic news! So pleased for you. What a gorgeous baby x

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Olivia1980xxx

Oh hun congratulations on your arrival. He is gorgeous xx

Yay congratulations!! Same weight as my LG 😍 enjoy every second xx

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Cinderella5

Delighted to see your post!❤ I've been wondering how you were as I knew you were due, kept you waiting the wee rascal!! Wishing you lots of fun times as a happy family!😘xx

in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you. I know you have been going through so much. I really hope to see your story progressing soon x

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aamiller405

Aww massive congratulations! Xo

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Hollibob

Many congrats to you both.

What did they estimate the baby weight to be before hand?

Glad he’s here safe and sound. I hear chocolate will help whilst you are feeding him x

in reply to Hollibob

They said at the 34 weeks scan they thought he was 5lb11 at that point ut they can be out a little

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Kitcat12

❤️❤️ just beautiful. So many congratulations! x

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Southeast28

Congratulations what a lovely post xxx

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crisps88

Omg a lovely post and absolutely the biggest congratulations ever to you three!! He’s beautiful. Xxxx

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Lou7744

Aww... many congrats 💕 he’s lovely 😊 xx

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Kat_15

Many congrats, so happy for you! He is gorgeous! Enjoy it all. xxx

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Klndmr

Awwww your post brought tears to my eyes but happy ones! Huge congratulations and I'm wishing you with all my heart health and happiness only from now on! Your chunky monkey is very sweet 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤🍀🍀

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greengreen

Congratulations to you both! He is so precious 💕

This is beautiful xx

Huge congratulations!

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GiantPanda

Congratulations!! I'm so very happy for you all after all you've been through. He looks amazing 😊. It's so lovely so see a family photo on here, and I hope one day to have one with my dh looking at me how yours is looking at you while holding his new baby. Very special. Looking forward to updates on your little big man. Enjoy these precious first days. Lots of love. Xxx

in reply to GiantPanda

A Thank you. You definitely will. It has always helped me to see the positive pictures and stories then try to imagine us there. Bigs hugs to you x

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Shelleybean

Wonderful to see your happy ending, massive congratulations 🎉🎉 Enjoy every minute xx

Massive congratulations to you all. What a journey. I've followed your story and couldn't be happier for you 😀😀😀😀 enjoy family life. It's worth the wait 😍😍😍😍 x X x

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Shirazlover2013

Amazing news, a massive congratulations to you and your hubby, what a chunky monkey indeed but just so precious 😍

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Solly-44

Oh wow, congratulations!

He’s the most gorgeous chunky monkey ever, what a lovely story xx

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Debrakay1704

Massive congratulations xxx 🎉🎉

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everhopeful83

I’ve been waiting for this update! 😍 Many many congratulations ☺️❤️ enjoy every minute xxx

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Autumnmoon

Congratulations! Lovely to hear the success stories you have had a long hard journey now is the time to enjoy your gorgeous little son x

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BeeGee19

Awww wow! Such a beautiful story. Congratulations momma and partner, have a wonderful life together xx

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MissSaoPaulo

So it was a lazy boy after all!! Huge congratulations to your little family, I'm so happy for you xxx

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Drives

Had a little cry when I read this. So happy for you both 😘 sounds like you have done amazing these last few days.

Huge congratulations!!

Enjoy every minute. Much loves x x x

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Camillage. Wonderful news and a fabulous looking family you look. I always say that giving birth is the hardest days work you will ever do, with the greatest reward. Now your adventures begin. Enjoy your little man and take lots of pictures as he will change so quickly. Gentle hug for you and daddy and xxxxx”s for a Junior. Diane

in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you Diane. You have been a great help through lots of my loss over the last 18 months since I stumbled across this site. I am so happy to have been able to share a positive x

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AnnieAnnie

Congratulations!! Enjoy every moment with your little boy making the best memories xx

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L2213

Huge congratulations! Really lovely news 😊 thanks for sharing xxxx

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Core

Congratulations!! I’m so happy for you and thanks for sharing xx

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Lou9

Beautiful! Huge congratulations. X

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Leannefb

Congratulations such lovely news. He's gorgeous and what a weight !! xx💙xx

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ALLY81

Congratulations and well done!! Hes a healthy size! Wishing you all the very best lots of love 💙 xxx

Congratulations!! So pleased for you both!!

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hannahkc

Congratulations Camillage!x

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Arya10

Well done!!!! And congratulations!! Such great news and so pleased for you both ♥️ what a gorgeous boy xxx

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gemmy999

So pleased for you. Congratulations. Amazing news. Wish you happy times ahead xx

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ChristineB05

Aww congratulations lovely. I'm so happy for you and thank you for your support.

He is gorgeous 💙💙

Super pleased to see your post. You look fabulous. Enjoy every second you most certainly deserve. Big hugs xxxx

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Thank you. Hope all going well with you xx

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runsoncuddles

Congratulations! I'm so so happy for you xxx

in reply to runsoncuddles

Thank you so much. How are you getting on? X

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runsoncuddles in reply to

Hey, scans showing empty sacs. We aren't doing great but hopefully will know more by Friday morning after further scans. Thanks for asking xx

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Oh no, that's not good. How many weeks are you equivalent of at the moment?

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runsoncuddles in reply to

We will be 7 weeks on Friday, symptoms have more or less disappeared, plus the painful cramps I'm not feeling hopeful. Xx

in reply to runsoncuddles

It's really easy to see nothing one day and hope the next at this point. Also, symptoms have a really annoying habit of coming and going at this stage to make you feel even more anxious. Sending you massive positivity for Friday. Xx

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runsoncuddles in reply to

Thank you and sending you lots of love xx

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Masha111

Hi

Huge congratulations to you both. What fantastic news. Have been thinking of you and awaiting your news. (When ive not been in hospital, i am there now currently)

Your boy is gorgeous and i am so happy for you. Finally....patience is a virtue hey. i am ever so pleased for you that you didnt give in and you both stayed strong to get to where you are.

Enjoy this precious time of being parents and im sure you are gona be grand parents of a proud baby.

You are an inspiration to others. Aww what a magical time. You are truly blessed.

Well done hun xxx you did it xxx

in reply to Masha111

Thank you so much Masha. Hope all goes well with your trip to the hospital x

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LHow81

Congratulations!!! Lovely news xx

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Sharonl75

Aw-huge congratulations. He’s gorgeous.xx Been waiting for your news.xx

in reply to Sharonl75

Thank you very much xx

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CLou21

What amazing news for you both, congratulations 💗 Im so incredibly happy for you both, thankyou for sharing and enjoy your time as a little family xx

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Lots8788

Many congrats lovely! X

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WillowMary

Congratulations!! 😍 I love seeing people’s success and their new beginnings, as I know there’s hope. 🥰. Enjoy the adventure of being a mum. X

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Elynn

Awesome news, heal well. Enjoy you sweet baby. 🌻🌹🌻

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andromedae9

Wow! Huge congratulations! xx

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tiger-cub

Congratulations is a very small world for what you have achieved ❤️❤️❤️😘

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Kyell2

Aww such lovely lovely news.

I’m so pleased your wee man has arrived safe and sound, and well done to his super star mummy because it can’t have been easy at that weight!!

Enjoy every moment 💙 😊 xx

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ICSIRose

Awww congratulations!!!!!

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chrissie_81

Oh yayyyy!! I’m sooo delighted to read this! 😃💙 Massive congratulations to you all, and well done Mumma! 💪🏼🌟 Enjoy your beautiful little family. So much love xxx

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Bluelady-sing

10lbs wow!

Well grown baby! Congrats.

What were you eating during your pregnancy

in reply to Bluelady-sing

Lots of fruit and veg, fish, lean meats yoghurt etc. And drank loads of water x

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Em2405

Congratulations! Been looking for your update! Enjoy your precious bundle and have all those cuddles you’ve been dreaming of. Lots of love to you all xx

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MrsH007

What a wonderful post of happiness and encouragement to others. Massive congratulations on the birth of your baby boy. 💙💙💙💙💙

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Sibbo84

Massive congratulations 🥰🥰🥰 amazing that you got your happy ending! Xxx

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Celloheggy

Massive congratulations!! I’m so happy for you!! Xxx

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Paris1771

Massive congratulations honey! What a wonderful picture😍😍😍Im sooo happy for3 of u❤️It is the best news I could c in the morning🤗wish u all the best in the world for your new family😘😘😘🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹

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magda22

Many many congrats!! How wonderful, enjoy the time. Sounds like it was a bit of a mad birth! Hope you can now rest a bit and enjoy your little baby :) ❤️ very much love to you xxx

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KriSho

Congratulations 🎉💐

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Hope76

Huge congratulations, you have a face of pure relief. Enjoy this precious times with your bundle of joy. I have followed your story and you absolutely deserve this after such an emotional journey xxxx

Many congratulations and best wishes

Oh wow,he's an absolute beauty,huge Congratulations to you both. You really deserve the happy ending and you are going to make an amazing mommy xxxx

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ochy1

Stories like this are so inspiring and give hope, which is what IVFers all need. Excellent for you to have a happy ending. Best wishes.

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Tomorrow_1

Huge congratulations! Such a beautiful ending to your long journey! Enjoy every minute of being a mum!!!

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jengi

Massive congratulations my lovely. Enjoy the new adventure! Big hugs & kisses to you and your little miracle Xx

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Jazmin222

Amazing!! so happy for you!!! 🤗❤️ Everyone who wants motherhood deserves to get there!! Lovely news!! X

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Pookymama

Oh hun, he's perfect! Massive congratulations. What a bouncer! Ollie was also a chunky monkey at 9lb 3 and is now around a stone at 9 weeks.

Can't believe we've finally got our miracles xxx

in reply to Pookymama

It's amazing isn't it. So glad we finally got there. Big hugs to you xxx

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Jen_jen

Huge congratulations! 💕👶🏼 xx

in reply to Jen_jen

Thank you x

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Nicnac2303

Hi massive congratulations, I had my cycle more or less the same time as you and gave birth to a little boy 8lbs6oz on the 6th of July. Can I ask what the other group is that you moved too rather than this one when you were pregnant, as I know how sensitive this group is, but it saved my sanity before & during IVF xx

in reply to Nicnac2303

The Nct group. How are you? Hope all going well? I still have to pinch myself. I also joined the facebook group "Unicorns after ivf uk".

Xxx

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