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Official test day of my first iui procedure no positive test and no period 😢😢😢

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Niki_B

Oh hun I'm so so sorry 😥 I was so wishing for a positive for you 💔 It's so hard dealing with BFN they are never easy. And dont say it like that you didnt fail... this journey is just so unfair. Please look after yourself during this hard time. Sending big big hugs and you will feel better with time. 💗 hopefilly next time will be it xxx

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Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B

Thank you darling xx

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Drives

Sorry to read this lovely. Sending you a big hug 💕 look after yourself and be kind as well. You did not fail, this is a bumpy journey that isn't always fair!

x x x

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Noah1981 in reply to Drives

Thank you xxx

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CLou21

Sorry to hear that, its so hard when you build all your hopes around it. Are you having another round? Take some time for you and look after yourself xx

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Noah1981 in reply to CLou21

Yes I’m giving myself a month to do normal things then in for round two xx thank you x

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry it wasn’t good news.

The IUI odds are so low but they do improve with each IUI attempt I think.

You definitely haven’t failed, but I know I felt a bit like that when mine didn’t work.

I hope that you can take some time, enjoy a nice drink and be yourself before making a new plan.

My period arrived the day after the IUI didn’t work so hopefully yours arrives soon.

Sending hugs xx

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Noah1981 in reply to Kyell2

Thank you xx yes I’m having a month to go back to being Rachel xx

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Cinderella5

Ahhh Noah, dont think of it like that! You havent failed, it just hasnt worked this time. Big hugs, gather some strength for your next go but most importantly be kind to yourself....have a treat with some time out!xx

Aw sorry to hear it hasn’t worked this time, enjoy a little rest from it and maybe next time will be your time x

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Stephybivf

I’m so sorry to read this 💔💔. I hope your ok xxxx

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Noah1981 in reply to Stephybivf

Step 2 on the stairs for me xx

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