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Does anyone ever have days where you feel really positive that the ivf will work one day and then other days where you just can’t see it happening?

I’m having a day where I can’t see it happening 😞 felt so down about it tonight. All week I’ve felt so positive about it! Don’t get what’s changed.

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Drives

Aww lovely. I don't really know what advice to give but wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and you're not alone 😘 x x x

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Sunshineraye in reply to Drives

Thank u hun, hope you are well xx

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Drives in reply to Sunshineraye

I'm ok thanks lovely 😘 hope you've got a nice weekend planned x x

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runsoncuddles

Hey! I hope you start to feel better soon. This journey is really demanding.

I've got moments when I think to myself "what have you gotten yourself into?" Times when I tell myself that if I keep trying naturally it will happen one day... this is insane as we've been ttc for 6years! So I can relate to the ups and downs. All we can do is take it a day at a time. Sending you lots of hugs xxx

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Sunshineraye in reply to runsoncuddles

It’s so though. I saw a photo yesterday of a dad carrying his newborn out the hospital and instantly I just couldn’t see me having that happy moment. Yet all week I’ve telling myself it will happen one way or another 🤷‍♀️ Xx

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Judy18

Just remember that this is a hard thing to deal with and ups and downs are normal. I have days were i feel fine and then will wake up and be crying ever other hour!

Sending massive hugs xxx

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Sunshineraye in reply to Judy18

Thank you :) xx

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Kama41

I know exactly how you feel. I’m just coming to the end if my 2ww after 2 embryos on a 3 day transfer short protocol. I’m 41 and this is our second round. I’ve really struggled this time emotionally and I couldn’t feel less pregnant. My boobs don’t even hurt anymore. I’m absolutely sure it hasn’t worked my period is naturally due any day and I have that feeling it’s coming. You know your body right. All I wanted to say is that you are not alone. Keep positive xxx

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Sunshineraye in reply to Kama41

Ah my fingers are crossed for u. Mine failed last month but have been feeling positive as I have some frozen but yesterday I saw a photo of dad leaving the hospital with his newborn and I just couldn’t imagine me and my husband having that happy moment :(

2ww is horrendous. Xx

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Vegemite

Every month I fantasise about conceiving naturally... then I slap myself, and remember if it ain’t happened by now I need intervention. I have down weeks, not just days

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AS100

Yes flip-flop thinking all the time! It seems like an unsolvable riddle to me at the moment ☹️ I just keep thinking it works for millions of people and so there must be space for a few more successes! big hugs 🤗 xx

I am just about to begin my first cycle and am absolutely terrified. I change my mind every other minute about whether to do it or not. I’m 42 😔 x

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Emmaxxx

Don’t change your mind. Go for it!!! Xx

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ahead my motto 'one day at a time' this had worked so far. Wishing everyone else positive vibes x :)