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5th & final ever transfer & I think it’s a chemical 😢

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OTD is Monday so today i’m 12dp5dt & a test should be showing a clear positive by now but the line is really faint.

Think this is even worse than having a BFN in the first place thinking I actually cake so close only to have it all snatched away from me at the last second.

Wish I’d tested days ago so I could see the difference but then would I be in a worse state now?

Can’t believe this is happening. Blood test is on Monday morning but I know in my heart it’s all over.

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elle80

Hi Star.

I haven't got a lot of experience on all this as this is my first go. I have read countless forums though!! And some people may not even get a line even at 12 days and only find out on the day they do their final test that they're pregnant. I think it's reassuring that you have a line.. Perhaps the hcg isn't as strong yet, or the test isn't picking it up as much. Obviously you know how you feel and are a lot more experienced in this than me. But I just wanted to say not to give up hope and I'll keep everything crossed for you on Monday xxx

in reply toelle80

Thank you for your message, I really appreciate it.

Just been thinking, 5 years of pregnancy tests, that’s a lot even at one a month, let alone the months when I tested 3-4 times! 🤦🏼‍♀️ Possibly time to stop testing or we’ll end up bankrupt!! Xxx

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I'm hoping that everything works out for you hun 😘 xx

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NDE1987

Hey hun please don't panic!! I would go get a digital clear blue to test. Did you use first urine of the day? Xx

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Unfortunately I got up & went to the loo about 5 & didn’t think about it but Estes when I next woke up. Should have bottled the first one. I’d really like to believe that’s the reason it was so faint but finding it hard to be that positive/hopeful. Xxx

Please don’t lose hope!! What kind of test are you using? I’ve had 6 pregnancies and 3 chemical pregnancies so believe me I know the feeling well :( The fact you have a line is a good sign! My first ivf the line was hardly visible at all at that pregnancy got to the 2nd trimester. Each test varies. Just try to stay positive and test again on Monday. Thinking of you and wishing you tonnes of luck xxx

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Broken ones I think! Used a FRER Test this morning but they were all out when I went to buy another one earlier so I had to get the CBER one for tomorrow morning instead. It does mean I won’t be able to compare tests though so may end up buying more...

Sorry to hear of all your losses, there are no words I can say at all.

I will keep everything possible crossed for Monday 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 Thank you for your message xxx

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Good luck!!!! 😘xxx

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Cinderella5

Couldn't read and run even although I've spoken to you already! Hang in in there chum!xxxx

in reply toCinderella5

Thank you lovely, not sure what I’d do without you! Xxxx

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Tugsgirl

I can imagine it would be hard for you to stay positive right now.. I hope that Monday’s test gives you great news xx

in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you 😊 it’s been an emotional day, part of me wants to be excited that it might be good news but I can’t allow myself to feel like that in case it’s not good news xxx

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Wishfully

Stay strong Hidden , Monday may bring positive news for you. Xx

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Thank you, it feels like a million years away at the mo! I hate wishing time away all the time but it’s all i seem to have done for the last 5 years! Xxx

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Wishfully in reply to

I know, it’s tough & in my view is the single hardest thing about IVF... pausing life & just waiting. Monday will come soon enough and I’m very much hoping for good news for you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwww bless you hun, remember depends on all sorts tests your using I can imagine during these warm nights your drinking so your urine maybe diluted. I'm hoping Monday gives you good news hun, big hugs 💝😘

in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you, I really feel in limbo at the moment. It’s been a strange day. Xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

I can imagine hun, praying Monday gives positive news 💝😘

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😘 xxxxx

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Autumnmoon

Like everyone else hoping there is still hope for you but must be very hard for you right now x

in reply toAutumnmoon

Thank you xxx

Please stay positive. It is hard but the only thing you can do now. Hopefully your test on Monday will bring the news that you so deserve. Sending massive hugs xx

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Thank you xxx

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Becky179

Ah bless you. It's never simple is it! Fingers crossed for Monday for you xxx

in reply toBecky179

Thank you, unfortunately the bloods have confirmed it’s all over now. I really appreciate your reply though xxx

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elle80 in reply to

Really sorry to see this!!! Sending you lots of loves and hugs xx

in reply toelle80

Thank you 💕 xx

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Becky179 in reply to

Oh I'm so so sorry. How very awful for you. Sending hugs xxx

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