We had our EC 2 days ago and after collecting from 8 follicles, we got only 4 eggs!! I was so sad and didnt have any hope anymore! They said that 3 got fertilised but one of them is not in a good condotion and just have3 cells! So the embryologist said that she is not positive about it and my dr said that he wants to transfer 2 of them which still dont have a good quality! He said if both had a good quality,he would transfer only one but in this situation he reccomended to transfer both and despite my willing I accepted!
It has been a tough day! Hubby couldnt come with me coz of his job and I was totally alone!
Had accupuncture before and after the transfer and now just nervous about another 2ww !! I deeply hope they stick but as he was not so optimistic I cant be so hopeful!
Just please pray for me !
Sending you all lots of love and positive waves on your ways! xxxxxx
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Hi. Please don’t think you’re alone. We are on our 3rd cycle of ICSI. We had 7 eggs retrieved, 4 were mature, 3 fertilised, 1 had fragmentation and 1 only fertilised to 1 cell after 48 hours. The remaining one got to 7 cells and was transferred on day 3, so we are in a very similar situation. I’ve been told a lot that it only takes one, so I’m sending that positive vibe to you too xxxx
Thank u so much for your reply! It should be so hard for u as well! Ours have 4cells each one and the dr said they are not very good quality! So just fingers crossed for all of us in this complicated, tough journey!
Sending u all the luck in the world! Take care honey! xxxx
Yes,I do hope they can stick there! Im just trying to get relaxed! Wachting movies and playing with my little dog! Hope it goes so fast and so good! 🤞🤞 xxxxx
Hi Paris1771, im in exactly the same situation! Ec on Tuesday and transfer today - never had one this early before but 🤞 . Wishing you all the luck in the world x
Hi Mrsti! So interesting! Hope we get a BFP soon! It’s really tough , isnt it? I do hope all the best for u from the bottom of my heart! Take care! xxxxx
Aww sounds like you've had a really rough day! I'm sending lots of positive vibes and happy thoughts your way....not to mention lots if love & luck!! You just never know what embryos will take, hopefully just better back with you than in the lab!! Got everything crossed for you!xxxx
Yay! We finally did it! However it was too tough, I feel much better than last night which I didnt know what will happen today! Now the only thing I can do is waiting and waiting!
Will u start by the next month?
I do send u love and wish u all the luck in the world for your next cycle! Take care and keep us posted! xxxxx
Glad to hear that you're feeling a bit better about things! That's all we seem to do....wait, wait and more waiting!! Im wishing my life away here as per usual! Yes hoping to start meds in a couple of weeks for transfer mid June time, nervous but ready!! Thanks for the well wishes, will post up when Im on my way to get those embryos.xx
Hey dont be so hard on yourself. I am sure things will get better. Just know that you are not alone. We are all with you. I know such things can be difficult to go through. However, dont let them weaken you. All my prayers are with. I hope things work out.
Thank u so much honey! Your message is really heart warming to me as I passed a tough day full of stress! Specially that I was alone and had to make the decision by myself! Hope things work out for all of us! 🤞🤞sending u love and hugs!xxxx
All the best- I went from 25 eggs, 8 fertilised by ICSI, only 2 good enough embryos to be frozen . I couldn't have a fresh transfer due to ohss so now preparing for FET in few weeks. I'm so nervous, I thought I'd get more to freeze. So I have all my hopes on these 2 little ones.
Thank u so much honey! Sorry that u have been through such a stressful situation! It’s really cruel to some of us! Im happy that u have those 2 little embies and I do wish they stick very nicely in your womb by the transfer in the weeks ahead! As everybody says, all we need is only one golden emberyo to stick! Best of luck to u! Xxxxx
My dear, you brought tears to my eyes just by the tone of your voice. I know exactly how you feel because I have walked in your shoes 👠 👠. The only difference was that I had to pay £6000 and had only one chance which ended 3 months later in my bed.
Please I know it’s physically, emotionally and psychologically draining BUT, I believe you still have it in you to do everything possible to change your mood. Please don’t sound so sad 😞 and defeated 😕 already. Let’s push as hard as we can to be happy that you have 2 transferred. Keep Hope alive and difficult as it is; kick the sadness away.
Tell yourself that you have 2 fertilised eggs inside you and when you are tempted to feel nervous 😥 or sad ☹️, tell yourself that; if you’re sad, your babies will be sad, if you’re happy 😃 they will be happy and hold on tight and continue to grow. Your body releases different hormones based on how you feel. Please we need happy hormones.
It’s normal to be a tiny bit nervous 😬 but we don’t want you to be worried and stressed out about it all the time. I had a very healthy and extra perfect fertilised egg transferred; it was much bigger than the rest; with chubby cheeks and a baby pot belly (I could tell all that by looking at the big blob); however it didn’t go past 13 weeks.
I watched a documentary about a couple who were down to one embryo which the clinic said the quality wasn’t great but the couple insisted and went along with it. To everyone’s shock, that one which was almost destroyed turned out to be 2 cute identical twins 👯.
I will be praying for you and I’m sure we all wish you the very very best. A tub of B&Js Caramel Choo Choo ice-cream (chew chew) and something nice to watch. I’ll be back to check up on you ok. 😘😘
Hi honey! I am sorry that it made u sad! I didnt mean it at all but I know that it’s because of so many mutual experiences and common feelings that reminds us our sadness some times! And I am truely, deeply sooo sorry for your lost! Hope your wones healed a little bit! I had a MC as well! I got pregnant for the first time in my life on January but the baby stopped growing up after about 4-5 weeks and we were obliged an abortion on 9th week! It is too much to carry with us but we cant change it!
It is so interesting about the documentary u watched! Hope that kind of luck to all of us!
Thank sooo much for your nice wishes honey! I do hope the same to u!
I tried some B&Js last night while watching tv😂! But Im at work today and back to real life again!
Anyway Im trying to be happy and positive as much as I can as u say❤️Thank u so much again! Wish u all the best luck in the world! Sending u love and hugs!xxxx
Sending you lots of ladybird luck I had 2 in my garden today. Stay positive 2 is better than none and those little fighters can do miracles inside so stay positive and look out for the ladybirds they’ll bring you luck 🍀🐞
Oh,it is really nice of u honey! I love them and it feels the same to me as well whenever I find one😍thank u so much for your nice and kind wishes! Sending u love and luck on your life! xxxxx
Thanks good if your seeing ladybirds it’s a sign that your dreams will come true eventually google it, ladybirds are very spiritual. I’ve seen loads in my 2md cycle and they really gave me hope when things didn’t work out. I’m sending some your way 🐞🐞
Wonderful!! Paris meets B&J on the Caramel Choo Choo train. Thank you for your lovely empathetic words. Although it left a hole in my heart, I managed to move on...... life has to move on. I’m ecstatically happy for you 🥰😘😘
Your most welcome dear! I do understand about your feeling and I always speak about that hole on my life! But if it’s my destiny ,I must fill it in with other good part of life which I havent found them yet😉😫!
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